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RE: why evrey kink needs a name? - 12/10/2009 11:47:22 PM

QuirkyAnne

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On kink boards, it feels like it. So many kinksters regard it as "beneath them" that it's like talking about anal sex in a born-again Christian group.

*shakes head*

I understand that "the old standard" is boring for some, sure... But when something continues being a standard for generations, that tells me that there must be SOMETHING right about it!

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RE: why evrey kink needs a name? - 12/10/2009 11:49:27 PM

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Careful... you'll get the "you've just internalized it as enjoyable" arguement.

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RE: why evrey kink needs a name? - 12/10/2009 11:55:04 PM

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I just KNOW I'm going to regret this.... But...

Educate me on this please?

Anne

EDIT: Nevermind. Googled it. Depressed now.

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RE: why evrey kink needs a name? - 12/10/2009 11:56:45 PM

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I am in to women and anything goes. Is that a fetish

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RE: why evrey kink needs a name? - 12/11/2009 2:24:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: TazDevil

it could be said anything can be made in to a kink, that could mean that everything is, so why do's all every little odd and end kink need it own word/term? can't it just be a like a (for example) "blow job fetish" and that’s that?

I don't care what it is called or if it has a a special name. The term kink is subjective term in and of itsellf. Simply, if I like it I may engage in it and if I don't, I won't

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RE: why evrey kink needs a name? - 12/11/2009 5:20:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: QuirkyAnne

I just KNOW I'm going to regret this.... But...

Educate me on this please?

Anne

EDIT: Nevermind. Googled it. Depressed now.

*snickers* I went to a private liberal arts college. I've heard the "you only like it cause you've internalized it" so many times I can effectively apply it even when I think it's bullshit. And best part is that it doesn't need to be proven because you can keep saying "You only think that becuase you've internalized it. You only think that because you've internalized it." Rinse, lather, repeat.

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