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PrimalConsonance -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/10/2009 6:14:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WolfBigandBad Take a hike NO one here cares to hear about all the bulls__t in your fantasy world.You are a self centerd c__t Make room for other women who Truly seek a D/s relationship.You and your bulls__t is cluttering up the site so TAKE A HIKE. I would like to ask everyone's opinion on this email. Im not gonna give names or point fingers I am just curious about something. Why is it that there are so many "Doms"/"Masters" on this site that will gladly go out of their way to be so rude to people. My girl received this message today, completely out of the blue. I know she don't talk to Doms or Dommes on this site because she has no desire to. I just feel that this type of disrespect and behavior is the reason I have heard so many people speak poorly of this site. Most people here share the thoughts of their fantasy world on this site. We all know that what most people want here, Dom or sub can never really have what they truly want. In a perfect world we all could. I just want to know why people like this can post a profile and plainly state, and I quote "11/16/2009 5:30:52 PM: Opinions are like assholes so mabey all the assholes on here should keep their opinions to themselves.And if for any reason you do not like me its very simple dont message me.Like ive said before if i have offened any of the wanna bs on this site Kiss my Royal ASS...." then make sure they go out of their way to send a message to simply be rude to someone. Some people are jaded from an exhausting supply of already bad behaviors put on them. Jaded from being placed in being judged in a critical manner before they have even the chance to show what kind of people they really are or could be. This goes for both sides of the coin (dominants and submissives). This is one thing, another is that there are those whose sole purpose is to get what they want: pics, wank-material, or try to live their fantasy-life of what these people think is using D/s to prey on others for some sense of control where they really have none. Some feeling that the submissives here are meek and attention-starved individuals that sit in-waiting for ANYONE to give them attention and in return they'll devote their lives to this predator. This are my initial thoughts, but I'm sure that there are other reasons even more pathetic or sad.

MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/10/2009 11:47:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: allthatjaz He would of been awaiting her response so that he could wank furiously.... best thing you can do with people like that is ignore them. Exactly... some will do anything to initiate a conversation. Ignore and block.

Acer49 -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/11/2009 3:29:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WolfBigandBad Take a hike NO one here cares to hear about all the bulls__t in your fantasy world.You are a self centerd c__t Make room for other women who Truly seek a D/s relationship.You and your bulls__t is cluttering up the site so TAKE A HIKE. I would like to ask everyone's opinion on this email. Im not gonna give names or point fingers I am just curious about something. Why is it that there are so many "Doms"/"Masters" on this site that will gladly go out of their way to be so rude to people. My girl received this message today, completely out of the blue. I know she don't talk to Doms or Dommes on this site because she has no desire to. I just feel that this type of disrespect and behavior is the reason I have heard so many people speak poorly of this site. Most people here share the thoughts of their fantasy world on this site. We all know that what most people want here, Dom or sub can never really have what they truly want. In a perfect world we all could. I just want to know why people like this can post a profile and plainly state, and I quote "11/16/2009 5:30:52 PM: Opinions are like assholes so mabey all the assholes on here should keep their opinions to themselves.And if for any reason you do not like me its very simple dont message me.Like ive said before if i have offened any of the wanna bs on this site Kiss my Royal ASS...." then make sure they go out of their way to send a message to simply be rude to someone. Sounds like you ran into an individual who's IQ is the number of inches that his penis has

CalifChick -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/11/2009 8:55:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WolfBigandBad Why is it that there are so many ~~"Doms"/"Masters"~~ PEOPLE on this ~~site~~ PLANET that will gladly go out of their way to be so rude to people. Welcome to Earth. Don't eat yellow snow, and have a nice day. Cali

rockspider -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/11/2009 12:55:14 PM)
Compared to the good old days of the yahoo chatrooms, this is mild in here. Anything less than 2 deathtreats an evening was considered a boring evening. Well who cares for a 16 year old, pimply faced, wannabee Osama Binh Laden sitting hopping up and down on an internet cafe in Lahore. I put quite a few of "The Masters" here in same class.

wisdomtogive -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/11/2009 4:14:54 PM)
Hi WolfbigandBad The cmails side of Cm is a different entity to me. One, i never have used it to meet a potential, so it is'nt a meeting place for me. I do get some crazy cmails, and i just block and delete. Rudeness is something that is a major turn off to me in any one. Yes, we all have our days or moments, and can be snappy, and that is easily seen. I look at patterns on the boards. Usually a rude person will continue being rude, even when they try to hide it. Why they do it? I don't know. I am just glad i am not the one being rude. Yes, an occassional rudeness has come out of my keyboard, the keyboard made me do it:), but when called on it will public appologize up front in the thread. Some people are rude and they know it and don't care. Have a few on here, and to be honest if they weren't I be worried they were having a nervous breakdown. You can count on so and so to snap a remark. It reminds me that yes another day and life is good. II take nothing they say as offensive because it is them, and always is. They seem to enjoy it , own it and honor it. They will tell me to correct my spelling, which is good thing. Or another piece of advice. But they dont really name call, they tell you to do something about how you see things. Then you have the ones that pour syrup over their constant digs, and you know that is them. If they completely stopped it i think they might be crazy. :) Personally as long as i am not constantly rude, then i am fine. I don't have time to worry about people. I must be responsible for myself and all i stand for.

GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/11/2009 4:33:10 PM)
OP: Many ppl are vicious..they love to hurt...stir up shit..bait...get a reaction...anything for pathetic excitement in thier narrow fukked up world that consists of being able to be anon behind a screen..and lurk and act out their sickness..and empty mediocre shit life. I received the following.. "Hay ni66er cunt..you should be washing MY floors"" and more..then got worse.. Jsut a fukked up INSANE weirdo on a FREE SITE.. I never looked a his profile ..nothing....... out of the blue These are the same kind of weak..scared pricks that come out during wars to rape and do atrocities. I can tell you I have been messaged by a killer FOR SURE and at least 2 pedophiles.. We woudl probably faint if we knew half the shit in thses fukkers heads.. IGNORE>>>DO NOT REACT>>FUK THEM...well no don't.. but you know what I mean.. it is really hard for me as a mambo not to hex their wieners.... GM ps...as for the message I got above.. well..as a testiment to his IQ..[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m21.gif[/image].within several messages I had him believing I loved his DOM ways and wanted to switch and he wanted to fly me down.. .ahahahha I kid you not... then I circled in for the kill.. Normally I don't play around with imbeciles but I had some time on my hands that day...

Lockit -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/11/2009 5:38:55 PM)
LOL GM... hey we all have to have a lil fun once in a while! I've done it... but it's been a long time. I had to temper it all, as I started having far too much fun with so much material to work with!

KateyCaine -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/11/2009 6:06:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WolfBigandBad Take a hike NO one here cares to hear about all the bulls__t in your fantasy world.You are a self centerd c__t Make room for other women who Truly seek a D/s relationship.You and your bulls__t is cluttering up the site so TAKE A HIKE. I would like to ask everyone's opinion on this email. Im not gonna give names or point fingers I am just curious about something. Why is it that there are so many "Doms"/"Masters" on this site that will gladly go out of their way to be so rude to people. My girl received this message today, completely out of the blue. I know she don't talk to Doms or Dommes on this site because she has no desire to. I just feel that this type of disrespect and behavior is the reason I have heard so many people speak poorly of this site. Most people here share the thoughts of their fantasy world on this site. We all know that what most people want here, Dom or sub can never really have what they truly want. In a perfect world we all could. I just want to know why people like this can post a profile and plainly state, and I quote "11/16/2009 5:30:52 PM: Opinions are like assholes so mabey all the assholes on here should keep their opinions to themselves.And if for any reason you do not like me its very simple dont message me.Like ive said before if i have offened any of the wanna bs on this site Kiss my Royal ASS...." then make sure they go out of their way to send a message to simply be rude to someone. i must say that that is disgusting. You and Your girl have every right to be offended, as the tone of this name-calling, accusatory email is vicious, aggressive and certainly speaks volumes about the writer being a bitter, nasty person who likes spoiling for a fight. True, genuine Doms/Masters in my experience, are courteous and well-mannered, this inbred fuckwit is clearly not a Dom/Master. He is just someone who is bored, dissatisfied with his life, and gets a rise out of pushing people's buttons. my best to you both, try to ignore the trash out there in cyberspace, every barrel has a rotten apple or two. i'm sorry that Your girl had to find this filth in her inbox. i have had a couple of those too, believe me. k :)

Gage46Bstn -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/11/2009 6:37:33 PM)
Not all do. You seem to have run into a real creep. It's been said before by many but worth repeating - Being an abusive asshole does not make you an attractive multi-faceted Dominant. Some people are looking for verbal humiliation within a context. Unsolicited mail like this is just graffiti. Greg quote: ORIGINAL: WolfBigandBad Take a hike NO one here cares to hear about all the bulls__t in your fantasy world.You are a self centerd c__t Make room for other women who Truly seek a D/s relationship.You and your bulls__t is cluttering up the site so TAKE A HIKE. I would like to ask everyone's opinion on this email. Im not gonna give names or point fingers I am just curious about something. Why is it that there are so many "Doms"/"Masters" on this site that will gladly go out of their way to be so rude to people. My girl received this message today, completely out of the blue. I know she don't talk to Doms or Dommes on this site because she has no desire to. I just feel that this type of disrespect and behavior is the reason I have heard so many people speak poorly of this site. Most people here share the thoughts of their fantasy world on this site. We all know that what most people want here, Dom or sub can never really have what they truly want. In a perfect world we all could. I just want to know why people like this can post a profile and plainly state, and I quote "11/16/2009 5:30:52 PM: Opinions are like assholes so mabey all the assholes on here should keep their opinions to themselves.And if for any reason you do not like me its very simple dont message me.Like ive said before if i have offened any of the wanna bs on this site Kiss my Royal ASS...." then make sure they go out of their way to send a message to simply be rude to someone.

masterlink65 -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/14/2009 9:57:05 PM)
you dont encourage mail like this?!?!!!?

crazyml -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/15/2009 2:15:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WolfBigandBad Take a hike NO one here cares to hear about all the bulls__t in your fantasy world.You are a self centerd c__t Make room for other women who Truly seek a D/s relationship.You and your bulls__t is cluttering up the site so TAKE A HIKE. I would like to ask everyone's opinion on this email. Im not gonna give names or point fingers I am just curious about something. My opinion - I'm with you. What on earth does someone gain by sending a message like that?? Abuse like that is the kind of thing a pathetic, needy, jackass would write. quote: Why is it that there are so many "Doms"/"Masters" on this site that will gladly go out of their way to be so rude to people. Alas sites like CM attract more than their fair share of this type. Whether it's the UberMegaDom who reckons he's the only true dom in town, or the spiteful jerk who assumes that anyone who rejects him must be fake. quote: My girl received this message today, completely out of the blue. I know she don't talk to Doms or Dommes on this site because she has no desire to. I just feel that this type of disrespect and behavior is the reason I have heard so many people speak poorly of this site. Unfortunately lots of really sane, pleasant subs get emails like this. My only advice is, when receiving an email like this is to but a big smile on and bellow "JACKASS!" as loud as you can ;-) Certainly don't credit this kind of pathetic abuse with any real attention! quote: Most people here share the thoughts of their fantasy world on this site. We all know that what most people want here, Dom or sub can never really have what they truly want. In a perfect world we all could. I couldn't agree more. quote: I just want to know why people like this can post a profile and plainly state, and I quote "11/16/2009 5:30:52 PM: Opinions are like assholes so mabey all the assholes on here should keep their opinions to themselves.And if for any reason you do not like me its very simple dont message me.Like ive said before if i have offened any of the wanna bs on this site Kiss my Royal ASS...." then make sure they go out of their way to send a message to simply be rude to someone. Someone this illiterate should get a grown up to check their profile before sending it - Lordy! We all make the odd spelling mistake or typo but this takes the biscuit. Someone with such appalling grammar is bound to miss the evident irony that in ranting about "opinions" he has expressed one himself.

CaringandReal -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/16/2009 5:46:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WolfBigandBad Take a hike NO one here cares to hear about all the bulls__t in your fantasy world.You are a self centerd c__t Make room for other women who Truly seek a D/s relationship.You and your bulls__t is cluttering up the site so TAKE A HIKE. I would like to ask everyone's opinion on this email. Im not gonna give names or point fingers I am just curious about something. Why is it that there are so many "Doms"/"Masters" on this site that will gladly go out of their way to be so rude to people. My girl received this message today, completely out of the blue. I know she don't talk to Doms or Dommes on this site because she has no desire to. I just feel that this type of disrespect and behavior is the reason I have heard so many people speak poorly of this site. Most people here share the thoughts of their fantasy world on this site. We all know that what most people want here, Dom or sub can never really have what they truly want. In a perfect world we all could. I just want to know why people like this can post a profile and plainly state, and I quote "11/16/2009 5:30:52 PM: Opinions are like assholes so mabey all the assholes on here should keep their opinions to themselves.And if for any reason you do not like me its very simple dont message me.Like ive said before if i have offened any of the wanna bs on this site Kiss my Royal ASS...." then make sure they go out of their way to send a message to simply be rude to someone. I have personally never understood why people like you feel the need to point fingers at or complain about others in public in this way. No offense meant, but it makes you look weak and insecure--particularly to those who get much worse in their in-boxes and do not speak of it.

Acer49 -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (12/16/2009 11:29:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WolfBigandBad Take a hike NO one here cares to hear about all the bulls__t in your fantasy world.You are a self centerd c__t Make room for other women who Truly seek a D/s relationship.You and your bulls__t is cluttering up the site so TAKE A HIKE. I would like to ask everyone's opinion on this email. Im not gonna give names or point fingers I am just curious about something. Why is it that there are so many "Doms"/"Masters" on this site that will gladly go out of their way to be so rude to people. My girl received this message today, completely out of the blue. I know she don't talk to Doms or Dommes on this site because she has no desire to. I just feel that this type of disrespect and behavior is the reason I have heard so many people speak poorly of this site. Most people here share the thoughts of their fantasy world on this site. We all know that what most people want here, Dom or sub can never really have what they truly want. In a perfect world we all could. I just want to know why people like this can post a profile and plainly state, and I quote "11/16/2009 5:30:52 PM: Opinions are like assholes so mabey all the assholes on here should keep their opinions to themselves.And if for any reason you do not like me its very simple dont message me.Like ive said before if i have offened any of the wanna bs on this site Kiss my Royal ASS...." then make sure they go out of their way to send a message to simply be rude to someone. I guess the old saying is true, bad attention is better than no attention at all. Sad, truly sad

masterlink65 -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (1/12/2010 9:37:32 PM)
did you find the answer yet? there is a sub on here that will check my credentials on here every chance it can. for some reason this sub does not believe my experience are equal to theirs. this sub replies on the 'ask a master' quite frequently. i have written a couple times wondering why this sub is so convinced. my email is always thrown away unread. yet, sub still criticizes, to this day. the people who go out of their way to try to make my world a shitty place like theirs. i try my best to ignore them. best to recognize those people for what they are, so next time you encounter a person like this, you know enough now to move on.

LafayetteLady -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (1/12/2010 9:46:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit I just figure they haven't been laid in a long, long time and are mad at the world. [;)] Yes, but everyone's definition of a long, long time is very different. For me a long time is a couple of days, long, long time is a week! And I do get cranky!

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (1/12/2010 9:59:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: haha Getting a little Toppy are we? lol lol It's not my fault! Like I said i'm psychotic due to both lack of sex and lack of - bitch! Whore! - sleep [sm=rofl.gif]

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (1/12/2010 10:00:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit I just figure they haven't been laid in a long, long time and are mad at the world. [;)] Yes, but everyone's definition of a long, long time is very different. For me a long time is a couple of days, long, long time is a week! And I do get cranky! OMG, I must be a certifiable psychotic bitch! Over three months and counting. [:(]

rockspider -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (1/12/2010 10:03:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masterlink65 did you find the answer yet? there is a sub on here that will check my credentials on here every chance it can. for some reason this sub does not believe my experience are equal to theirs. this sub replies on the 'ask a master' quite frequently. i have written a couple times wondering why this sub is so convinced. my email is always thrown away unread. yet, sub still criticizes, to this day. the people who go out of their way to try to make my world a shitty place like theirs. i try my best to ignore them. best to recognize those people for what they are, so next time you encounter a person like this, you know enough now to move on. Sounds rather contradictory to me. If you go out out your way to ignore them why do you then still send loads of e mails to somebody who just trow them away unread. I will send a person one email and if they don't answer, that's the last they ever hear from me.

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? (1/12/2010 10:13:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rockspider quote: ORIGINAL: masterlink65 did you find the answer yet? there is a sub on here that will check my credentials on here every chance it can. for some reason this sub does not believe my experience are equal to theirs. this sub replies on the 'ask a master' quite frequently. i have written a couple times wondering why this sub is so convinced. my email is always thrown away unread. yet, sub still criticizes, to this day. the people who go out of their way to try to make my world a shitty place like theirs. i try my best to ignore them. best to recognize those people for what they are, so next time you encounter a person like this, you know enough now to move on. Sounds rather contradictory to me. If you go out out your way to ignore them why do you then still send loads of e mails to somebody who just trow them away unread. I will send a person one email and if they don't answer, that's the last they ever hear from me. Same here.

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