sunshinemiss -> Favorite Decorations (12/13/2009 7:02:37 AM)
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Hello everyone, During this time of year there are people decorating for a variety of holidays. I thought (based on the I Love thread) that we might like to share our stories with each other. I'm specifically asking about decorations because I believe so much in physical things being representative of our inner lives. It is really powerful. But if it is a memory, that is cool. *I remember one of the gals last year or the year before telling a story about M and M s that just touched everyone* So, here's my favorite to get things rolling: The last Christmas my grandfather was alive, I went out to visit him. *That was a big tadoo, but it's another story* Anyway, I surprised him with my (then) girlfriend and just showed up at his doorstep. I came out to him before that but he'd never met her, but he was so gracious and so good about it. He took me aside in the hallway outside his apartment and said to me - you know it's all the same ... It's all about the big "O" (and he made an ok sign with his hand and a big ole "I love you no matter what" grin on his face)... Well, he was not really a man of many words, but it sure did make me feel accepted and loved! On our way out, we passed a tree that was in that hallway (He lived in a retirement home). There was a little bell on that tree with a red ribbon. I stole it. Yes, I did. I wanted something to remind me of that conversation and that love and his big grin! Ever since then I've donated ornaments to nursing homes, hospitals, residential treatment facilities, etc. in honor of my grandfather. That little bell is one of my most treasured posessions. How bout you all? sunshine
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