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lizi -> RE: question for male doms (12/14/2009 12:54:07 PM)
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ORIGINAL: CaringandReal
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ORIGINAL: lizi
Op...I'm interested to know why you think anyone who doesn't fall into the male Dom category isn't qualified to answer your question?
I doubt if it's qualifications. It's more following up what interests you. Sometimes you want to know how a particular group thinks about something. That's what I got from what bibiswitch said. Nothing more, nothing less, than she was wondering how male dominants responded to a particular porn situation. Why is it wrong for her to want to know how someone with a particular and specific sexual orientation feels about a porn situation?
Imagine if she were asking this question toward gay men, wanting to know what the got off on? Would you think she was insulting the entire non-gay population, or insinuating that we didn't think they were qualified to answer the question? She's asking about feelings, not about fact. That takes this conversation well out of the realm of "qualifications." And I say she has every right to want answers from the people she is interested in hearing answers from, whatever type of question it is.
Asking in "Ask a Master" should have been enough. Bibiswitch just hasn't learned yet that no matter where you ask something or what you ask, the female subs are all going to yammer out an answer...and when the answers are totally inappropriate becuase you were not asking them, you just have to learn to ignore them--or else put the most obnoxious offenders on ignore. They'll even answer questions like,
"Do your balls itch?"
"Well, I don't have balls and I love my sexy pussy, but yes the inner labia do indeed itch upon occasion. Thank you for asking!"
Do you wear sideburns?
"Well, no, teehee, I have soft silky feminine skin that cannot grow sideburns, but I do have the back of my neck and head clipped very close."
"How does it feel in your cock when you are penetrating a vagina?"
"Well, if I were to wear a strap-on (which I don't because I'm a sweet little subbie girl!), I doubt I'd feel anything because it is made of latex. But maybe the bumping would rub my clit a bit."
Sheesh on a Fucking Leash! How utterly ridiculous do the responses have to become before people will stop taking umbrage because someone wants to know something from a particular group of people, something that only that group can answer, because only that group has the attitude or orientation or gender appropriate to the question?
(throws popcorn at DrkJourney)
Wow. I'm sorry CaringandReal you got so upset over a question that I asked of the OP. I simply wanted to know what she/he was looking for in the original posting. Don't you think you may have gone off the rails a bit here in your response? It was just a question and upon looking it over again I don't see anything offensive in what I asked - maybe I wasn't PC enough in asking it?
As I said to Loki, the thought that went through my head was that there is a very diverse group here on CM and since the OP addressed a small portion of that group what was her/his motivation in an academic way- not because I was offended by him or her wanting to have this knowledge. I just wanted to know why this group had the knowledge he or she wanted. It was related to the topic and I wondered. Maybe it was a stupid question in your mind- maybe I was being particularly obtuse that day- but it was just a question and your response seems to me to be overboard.
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