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LadyBeckett -> RE: Am I Rare, Really? (9/8/2004 3:17:44 AM)
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All too often anymore we read "Pro Domme" like it is something negative, when in fact it is just another aspect of the lifestyle. For those boys and girls that want their Domme in fetish clothing when that door opens, for their "session", and pay top dollar for it...it's out there. I don't know a lot about it because 1. I am not a Pro Domme, 2. I don't have a Pro Domme "best friend", and 3. I've never been to one. However I don't actually think this is an issue of Pro Domme vs non Pro Domme. I think it is more like some maybe not so submissive boys attempting to pull one over. I can certainly appreciate your post, Simone.
Some of the males that I have met with have claimed Pro Domme experience, and have demonstrated that "do me" attitude along with that "Are you a 'real' Domme?" question when I wasn't wearing fetish clothing or spike heels. One of my personal favorites is, "I like to be spanked after completing each task." or "I have a special collar I like to wear when in service, it puts me in submissive mode." Birth put me in dominant mode, and I wasn't wearing anything. [;)] The point is, that they are only submissive if it is their way. And their way includes a certain image for Dommes.
I believe it was the thread on spike heels started by Sundew where we all talked about playing in clothes that are comfortable. I love leather, and am partial to chaps at times. But it's really up to me, how I feel, my mood, what I want, who is involved, and location. Since I am not a Pro Domme, if I am involved with someone it is toward the goal of a long term relationship. Therefore when subbie gets spanked...is up to me. [;)] It isn't about the clothes, it is about the attitude, the carraige, the command, the knowledge, the skill, and the intention. If they aren't feeling it, then they definitely need to move on...I certainly will.
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