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circumcision - 12/15/2009 9:16:50 AM

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Do most Mistresses require that their subjects, be circumcised,? do they sometimes demand subjects get circumcised, also same for pubic hair do they pefer shaved trimed or natural bush on a man.

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RE: circumcision - 12/15/2009 9:24:14 AM

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It all depends On the Dominant, As an example, I prefer my girl completely shaved, a friend (online Chat) Her Daddy likes a landing strip, and another friend, He likes His girls to not even trim Loves wild Bush

Remember in this Lifestyle Each Persons rules apply to them , there is No written rule book

just relax and enjoy,,, Life's too short to stress

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RE: circumcision - 12/15/2009 9:31:45 AM

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For myself, it really doesn't matter whether he is or not. I haven't encountered a man that isn't, but I am in the American Midwest where circumcision has been common for many years.

It depends on the man; some men need heavy trimming just so you can find the goods, if you know what I mean. Others are fine, and still others just need a little trim. I encourage my slave to be and remain shaven due to the fact that it is something that needs regular upkeep and reminds him of me.

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RE: circumcision - 12/15/2009 9:35:02 AM

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His parents decided the first and I see no reason to change that. As for hair... I don't care about that either. Trimmed or gone, matter's little to me.

It is what he holds between his ears that matters to me. All else can be worked with.

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RE: circumcision - 12/15/2009 11:33:17 AM

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Firstly I don't get that whole procedure and why it's mandatory. Some lug grabs your baby and cuts a third of the skin, ewwwww - I just can't fathom being o.k. with that. But an adult man? This got my curiosity up. I imagine in the grand scheme of things it's one of those decisions you can make only because it's a personal rights decision.

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RE: circumcision - 12/15/2009 12:11:27 PM

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Do most Mistresses require that their subjects, be circumcised,? do they sometimes demand subjects get circumcised, also same for pubic hair do they pefer shaved trimed or natural bush on a man.

Because all DOMMES are different and all men..and all situations you will never know until you ask..
and then you may have to GROW hair..or cut it off....

AS for circumcision...and off the thread topic..I WOULD NEVER have had my son circumcized knowing what I know now..but 25 years ago...I thought you had to..
IT WOULD NOW BE HIS CHOICE..WHY? TH Dr fukked it up and he is left with
a belt loop of skin with a hole in it..and husband #3 of mine had a botched one also leaving the skin so tight he coudd only orgasmn from a little area perhaps the size of a pin head

I check what the man has...how much hair?..will it get in the way?..will it add to the fun?..if he is uncircumsized I then know I can have more fn with clothes pins etc and CBT..
Hair does often get in the way
Whiel I may demand shaving or trimming I would never demand a circumcision

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RE: circumcision - 12/15/2009 2:31:14 PM

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Firstly I don't get that whole procedure and why it's mandatory. Some lug grabs your baby and cuts a third of the skin, ewwwww - I just can't fathom being o.k. with that. But an adult man? This got my curiosity up. I imagine in the grand scheme of things it's one of those decisions you can make only because it's a personal rights decision.

OP, manscaping is A Good Thing. Remember, trimming the bushes makes the tree look bigger.

And circumcision isn't mandatory, but there are good reasons for it. My dad decided as an adult to have it done for hygiene purposes, and his overall comment was that sex wasn't any better or worse, but that it made keeping it clean much easier. If you like blow jobs, remember, smegma is NOT your friend, so either be fastidious or circumcised.

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RE: circumcision - 12/15/2009 11:12:02 PM

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Do most Mistresses require that their subjects, be circumcised,? do they sometimes demand subjects get circumcised, also same for pubic hair do they pefer shaved trimed or natural bush on a man.

I can't help but ask if you are asking this question simply out of curiousity or because someone you have been talking to has told you that these would be requirements?

It doesn't really matter, I'm just the curious type. In either case, a man keeping himself neat and clean is often much preferred. Especially the ball area. Sorry but there is nothing worse than trying to give a great blow job and then dealing with hairy balls. Yuk. Personally, the whole shaved bald thing is unappealing to me on a man, but keeping those balls clean shaving is a must.

As for the circumcision. I dated a guy a long time ago who wasn't, it didn't matter to me. But typically most men of my generation are circumsized, so one who isn't is uncommon. I think that there are some things that really should be the decision of the individual regardless of the BDSM leanings. Whether or not to get circumsized would be one of them. So if you are talking to a woman who is insisting that you, as an adult male, should now go and have it done, I would tell you that unless it is something YOU personally would like to do, politely inform the lady that you are not compatible and move on.

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RE: circumcision - 12/16/2009 12:19:50 AM

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Remember, trimming the bushes makes the tree look bigger.

LOL Drifa! Thank you for the laugh tonight

OP, I would never command my boy to get circumsized. It was his parents decision to have it done or not. If he isn't, then it is now his choice, not mine. As far as hair goes? Oh yeah baby, keep that bush! It may make the tree look bigger, but my boy's tree is just fine the size it is

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RE: circumcision - 12/16/2009 4:01:27 AM

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I am a 'take the cock as it comes' type. (Kind of a funny pun.) I'm not especially concerned if he is circumcised or not when I get him. I wouldn't command a boy of Mine to have the procedure done as an adult any more than I would ask him to undergo any other type of unnecessary surgery.

As for the hair, yes, I want My boy to remain shaved. My reason for this is that he should be ready for whatever kind of play that I would like to do at all times. Since I happen to like things such as wax, fire, electrical, and others, but can not stand the smell of burning hair, that means the hair must be removed.

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RE: circumcision - 12/16/2009 9:52:59 AM

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Short trim or shaved entirely. I do prefer circumcised men, but as to making him have the procedure as an adult? Think NOT. There would be cleanliess inspections, though.

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RE: circumcision - 12/17/2009 8:18:57 AM

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Thanks to you all for your input,

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RE: circumcision - 12/17/2009 8:32:49 AM

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Guess it was kind of silly of me not to tell you all that I really do not need circumcised or shaved, as you can see in my profile picture

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RE: circumcision - 12/17/2009 8:52:05 AM

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. I am jewish and we have this ritual when a baby boy is 8 days old. A Bris. A specially trained Rabbi called a Moyel does the procedure. I found it to be quite beautiful as my son was doing his first jewish commandment. There were prayers and godparents were there as part of the ritual. There was no pain as I had numbing medicine for him. He didnt let out a peep. The house was filled to the brim with well wishers to witness this joyous occasion and like any jewish party there was a lovely buffet.

I know I am a Bottom/sub, but I just had this vision. Of a grown submissive man having a full out Bris. Domina as mother or Moyel. Or maybe Moga as Mother and Hib as the Moyel. After we could have a lovely buffet!

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RE: circumcision - 12/17/2009 8:53:46 AM

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OR maybe LadyPact would like to take part in the procedure????

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RE: circumcision - 12/17/2009 9:12:12 AM

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Guess it was kind of silly of me not to tell you all that I really do not need circumcised or shaved, as you can see in my profile picture

Actually, I'm with Lockit on this one:

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RE: circumcision - 12/17/2009 9:23:23 AM

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Guess it was kind of silly of me not to tell you all that I really do not need circumcised or shaved, as you can see in my profile picture

That was quite a helpful clarification.

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RE: circumcision - 12/17/2009 9:27:24 AM

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LOLing at Lushy!! I have a dear friend who is a Rabbi, and we have had that joke before!!

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RE: circumcision - 12/17/2009 9:30:58 AM

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LOLing at Lushy!! I have a dear friend who is a Rabbi, and we have had that joke before!!

Clip clip then clapping, then, "Mozel tov" then "now wheres that LOX?"

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RE: circumcision - 12/17/2009 9:33:45 AM

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Firstly I don't get that whole procedure and why it's mandatory. Some lug grabs your baby and cuts a third of the skin, ewwwww - I just can't fathom being o.k. with that. But an adult man? This got my curiosity up. I imagine in the grand scheme of things it's one of those decisions you can make only because it's a personal rights decision.

OP, manscaping is A Good Thing. Remember, trimming the bushes makes the tree look bigger.