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The best games are in the head - 3/17/2006 2:51:45 AM

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The best thing i find about headgames i think, is the inspiration that they contribute, the trust that they are built on. When you allow someone into that deepest part of you that they can manipulate you to Their whim and you crave it because you know that They are going to keep you safe and cared for and push you beyond what you feel you are capable of, breaking that barrier or wall that life has built up around you.

Only One has been able to breakthrough to me emotionally and physically He knows who He is. i can honestly say that my life has never been the same since. Some days i might curse Him for it but overall the experience has been one of tremendous personal growth and transformation.

While my Master and i prefer to keep specific details of O/our personal experiences private He encourages general discussions i feel encouraged to seek others with similar mindsets,and so i will only say that my life is so much better now with Him in it than without Him.i look forward each day now to certain routines and things that i know were suggested to me by Him for my physicaland mental well being and that established a deep abiding trust and faith. One that He earned and took the time to build. Thereby affording me the opportunity to break through to me without breaking me.

i wonder, who has been that special someone who has broken through to you and how did it happen?

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RE: The best games are in the head - 3/17/2006 5:56:44 AM

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i wonder, who has been that special someone who has broken through to you and how did it happen?

I dunno, there have been occasional people who could mind fuck me immediately, without any relationship or emotional connection. They were simply that smart, that observant, that intuitive and that cheeky to turn me on my side and twist me around mentally.

It was pretty awesome.

And I can do it pretty easily to people around me as well. Fucking with someone mentally and playing with their perceptions is usually a pretty easy thing if you take the time to learn how.

In cases where someone has broken through actual emotional barriers, they did it by simply being who they were.

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RE: The best games are in the head - 3/17/2006 6:34:10 AM

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Your description of such an experience hits close to home. my Master has touched my inner core. The trips he takes me on, inside myself, can still be somewhat intimidating but i go where he leads me. He has indeed broken through all barriers leaving me intact - stronger, wiser, and better.

It was a pleasure to read your post :)

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RE: The best games are in the head - 3/17/2006 9:34:00 AM

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blushes thank you ownedgirlie

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RE: The best games are in the head - 3/17/2006 9:51:21 AM

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All said in this post is well in my mind, though my only contention with it is what you are describing is not associative with a mere game. I may be in error, but from from what you've revealed, I feel your psychological interrelations go far deeper than the scope of that paltry word.

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RE: The best games are in the head - 3/17/2006 12:55:17 PM

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you are quite right amayos. it is not a game but rather an entire mindset. The connection and depth that Master has with my head (and heart) goes to the very core of my existence. The way He can out think me get deep inside and guide me is something many have tried and all but He have failed to accomplish. Its been over three years now and it still seems like day one sometimes as i sift through and think my word how on earth did He figure that part out. He has a natural ability to cut me to the quick with a single word and make me soar beyond all imagainings leaving me unable to form a single cognitive sentence with a look. i guess that is why i have never been able to call another Master despite my years in this life. For me there is only one Master, M. and i am honored that He repeatedly holds me in my place.

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All said in this post is well in my mind, though my only contention with it is what you are describing is not associative with a mere game. I may be in error, but from from what you've revealed, I feel your psychological interrelations go far deeper than the scope of that paltry word.

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