osf -> RE: stirring the pot (12/18/2009 8:17:51 PM)
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my thoughts are so non mainstream it wouldnt matter im into objectification, ownership/property, i like to feel that the things i do and want are things i have a right to do and want i dont think in terms of my power over her but rather my rights over her im not out to conquer, im here to accept (not the gift) but the meaning of what she is supposed to be its a coming together of two people being what they say they are and trying to live up to the others expectations i put it right out there, nothing meaningful hidden and expect the same in return i dont believe in fairness, how can it be fair when one person exercises authority over another? i dont hide behind a cloak of spirituality and a higher astral plane of existence, its base, is perverted, and i love it i dont think of the whole nebulous growth thing , i think of two people contributing what they have to contribute one of my fav sayings, not original with me, " both serve the relationship" i think for the most part we're hyper sexed and wired up all wrong and im ok with it and the word slave is something i have a problem with as commonly used after all she is free to come and she is free to leave and there's not much that can be done to stop her a working definition of slavery i use is a person so needful of the relationship or person that they will do almost anything to keep them using this definition its possible to be a slave in a nilla relationship i look at this all dispassionately not sugarcoating and not making excuses i know what i want, ive had it and ill have it again
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