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Sirandlittle1 -> RE: Preparation (3/18/2006 5:13:49 PM)
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Preparation is for us, very definately planned.
We live together as a D/s couple, not bedroom only. And still, he will have me prepare in certain ways.
I will often get a sms message " be ready for me when i return in 1 hr, you are to cleanse yourself inside and out" thats his speak, for im probably going to get my arse fucked and need to have a enema.
or there's the 'be sure you are wearing......'
or 'lay out my tools ready'
We also have a ritualistic way of greeting for him, as my way of requesting things. Whereby i get ready for whatever i am wanting to request, and i pour two glasses of red wine, leaving them on the table for him to see when he enters. That's my speak for i wish to be played with please. Then depending on how nicely i ask/grovel/beg and how he feels, i may or maynot be granted my request.
Generally as a day to day presentation, i must always be wearing my collar, my pubic hair is waxed allways, im always shaven. I always try to be 'appealing' which is difficult at times, living in rural australia heels are a tad difficult lol. but well presented is just me anyhow. Im vain, and like to look what i think is my best i guess.
sometimes, ive been requested to prepare something really odd. And its not until afterwards, i realise, it was never needed, used, or whatever, and ive learnt not to ask why, as 'never you mind' is the usual response.
Personally, i gain a lot from prep. It helps me focus away from work, house, kids, or whatever, and zone in on us, and what it is i am to him and visa versa. Like a meditation thang i guess.
littleone
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