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DesFIP -> RE: New meat needs some info (12/19/2009 9:52:44 AM)
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Lots of submissives hold powerful jobs. It's almost axiomatic that someone with heavy responsibilities will want time off to recharge. What does your job have to do with your personality? Nothing.
Figure out what you want. Do you want to do all the housework while he sits and watches tv? Do you want to have openness to talk to him or do you want to have to beg for an audience.? Do you want to be treated like a worthless object or the most precious thing he owns? How much control do you want?
Financial, micromanagement, etc. You need to do a lot of reading, also bdsm checklists, and discover what you need. Because unless you know what you want, you won't get it. And in future, don't have sex with someone you haven't bothered to talk to beforehand, fully dressed, about your sexual needs. If you can't talk about it, then don't do it.
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