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Jeffff -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (12/29/2009 9:03:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: atUrMercy

Ma'ams, I want to ask you, have you seen this in your other slaves? I know that a lot of you like it when a strong, alpha-male submits to you. But my personal experience tells me, as I have shared with you, that many males might not want to submit when they are strong, but they will submit when they are weak. What's your opinion Ma'ams?

Thanks to all the Ma'ams for their time.


If you were to change the "male" in this to female, and posted in Ask a Master, I imagine you would be half way to roasted by now.

There might be something in that for you.

Jeff



vincentML -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (12/29/2009 10:59:14 AM)

OP, I submit by the week, the day, the hour, the month.... whenever my Mistress requires.

Doesn't matter if I feel strong or weak. She makes me strong.



Santoro -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (12/30/2009 5:00:28 AM)

I have to say, if you view yourself as weak, you probably are, if you allow weakness to a part of who or what you are, you have written your own destiny. If you compromise or in any way deviate from the driving passions and goals raging within you, you have failed yourself and are in fact, exactly what the domme seeks, a product of self reduction.



earthycouple -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (12/30/2009 4:35:29 PM)

For a man to submit to me he must be very strong. Weak willed, pile o' jello in the corner type guys repulse me, generally. I want a man who is secure, strong, and willing because he's sure of himself in his devotion to me. Someone who is meek and skitters around in such a way that I think of jello turns me off because I tend to feel he's doing what he does out of some oddball fear vs a devotion to me. I want a man who can change a tire, speak his mind, write intelligently, stand up for me, yet still kneel in front of me, say "yes My Queen" and please me in any manner I desire regardless....I expect him to be strong of will, of mind, of body. I expect him to know his desires in life and be able to express them in such a way that I understand and respect them. I expect him to have respect and garner respect. I expect him to be a man (unless I want him to be a woman *S*).




theRose4U -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (12/30/2009 4:54:05 PM)

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I believe since you hurt your back it is your natural instinct to protect it (we all would really)so this may account for your lack of sexual aggression

I would question if your injury was to your lower back? In studying energy work there are eastern medicine parallels between injury to the lower back and ED or low drive. Something in  the spine no longer transmits signals like it should and the chakras or energy isn't transmitted properly.



LatteAddict -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (12/31/2009 11:43:17 AM)

How does that saying go, 'many can withstand hardship, few can withstand contempt'.
It takes a strong character to submit to a Domme when all about you think it a form of weaknesses.

Prejudice is certainly a form of weaknesses, the instinct has triumphed over the intellect.
Where is the rationale underlying racism, homophobia and all such jazz?

To me, a 'weakness' is any problematic behaviour that has controls the individual instead of the other way around.

If you are in control of your behaviour and it doesn't give others grief, is it really a weakness?

EDITED doo 2 dreadfol grama an spelin



UrMyboi -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (12/31/2009 2:20:13 PM)

I've had conversations with many new sub men. For most of them it was a tough journey to finally come to terms with who and what they are. Weak?? I don't think so, strong is the word.. Weak would be live a vanilla lie.



UrMyboi -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (12/31/2009 2:22:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

For a man to submit to me he must be very strong. Weak willed, pile o' jello in the corner type guys repulse me, generally. I want a man who is secure, strong, and willing because he's sure of himself in his devotion to me. Someone who is meek and skitters around in such a way that I think of jello turns me off because I tend to feel he's doing what he does out of some oddball fear vs a devotion to me. I want a man who can change a tire, speak his mind, write intelligently, stand up for me, yet still kneel in front of me, say "yes My Queen" and please me in any manner I desire regardless....I expect him to be strong of will, of mind, of body. I expect him to know his desires in life and be able to express them in such a way that I understand and respect them. I expect him to have respect and garner respect. I expect him to be a man (unless I want him to be a woman *S*).



Well said.



LadyCimarron -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (12/31/2009 2:30:12 PM)

Its takes a lot more strength to be a sub. I think subs who accept their nature and learn to love themselves are probably some of the strongest people in the world. Its a very difficult thing to give yourself over to someone else's authority and control. And I have put some of my subs through things that I myself don't think I could have endured.  Weak? I really don't think so. Submissive men are truly extraordinary creatures.
I Love you guys.
 
(Darn! there goes that warm fuzzy feeling! I try to avoid that! Its not "Domly")[;)]



domiguy -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (12/31/2009 2:35:15 PM)

Yeah it takes real strength to go out and find what "gets you off."

Yawn.



LadyCimarron -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (12/31/2009 3:09:03 PM)

On the other hand, I guess it takes "real strength" to sit at home and WANK OFF to your fantasies too scared to go out and search for what you want and make real connections with people. Many people do that and then complain about not having what they want.  

Yawn right back at you
and don't fret, I love you Domiguys too. [;)]



sissyshoefetish -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (1/2/2010 4:29:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

For a man to submit to me he must be very strong. Weak willed, pile o' jello in the corner type guys repulse me, generally. I want a man who is secure, strong, and willing because he's sure of himself in his devotion to me.



i must be repulsive.. i am weak willed and jello to the core.



hardbodysub -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (1/2/2010 9:21:37 AM)

I agree with domiguy. People are constantly writing about how it takes such a strong man to be submissive, or conversely, how wimpy a man must be to be a sub. Frankly, I don't think strength or weakness have a damn thing to do with it. That's all BS. You like what you like, you feel what you feel, you go after what you want, or you don't bother.



leadership527 -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (1/2/2010 2:25:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim
I hold the view that submission is an act of strength, not an act of weakness.  A person must be strong and vibrant in his own sense of self and purpose before he can give himself over to another.
yeah, that!



subinchico -> RE: Do men submit when they are weak? (1/4/2010 2:46:02 AM)

I love to be beaten when I'm weakened!



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