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Rednekcol -> RE: opinion of Masters required please (12/24/2009 7:10:07 AM)
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I am completely aware that this is only my opinion, and is like different from many others. I expect, however, that there are others that look at it this in a similar respect.
Let me begin by saying that that which I am looking for is probably what many people would call a Master/slave relationship. TPE, 24/7, any of the other terms people use for it. That said, I am usually much more attracted to those on this site that indicate themselves as submissives than as slaves, but I have seen profiles in both categories that appeal.
Why do I say I am looking for either one? In reality, for the simple fact I just stated: I have seen people on here who label themselves both ways that I would be interested in getting to know, and potentially trying to form such a relationship with. And so, when I search, I search for both; I only feel it is appropriate that others who might look at my profile see the same latitude. I would hate for someone who would be perfect for me but calls herself a slave to look at my profile and find out I am only looking for submissives, and thus turn away.
I do understand what the OP means about a slave being willing to be a slave from the onset. For me, that seems like an odd idea. Not that I believe things have to move slowly; I have known submissives who have the remarkable ability to trust and give very quickly, who can accept a very nearly complete power exchange right from the start. Does that make them a slave? Perhaps, by some definitions at least. I have also known those that take much longer to open up that far. I don't feel that they are any less a slave than the others, but perhaps some would consider them not to be slaves until they reach a certain level of power transfer.
I seem to be digressing, but there is one more semi-relevant note I would like to make. I commented that I find many more submissive profiles attractive than slave profiles. I feel this is because there is a larger percentage of slave profiles that simply put out there that they are looking to be used, degraded, and hurt in any possible extreme way. Not that I want to judge, but that isn't at all what I am looking for. While humiliation play, pain, and the rest can be great fun in play, that isnt what I really want as the basis of a relationship. Long before I connect with someone on that level, there would need to be an intellectual and emotional connection. Often times, I find submissive profiles to indicate that this sort of connection would be possible, more often than the slave profiles.
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