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For those of you that have met your O/one on CM what do... - 12/20/2009 10:32:18 PM

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Thanks for the replies...

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RE: For those of you that have met your O/one on CM wha... - 12/21/2009 1:11:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: winterlight

Thanks for the replies...

Sincerity, persistence, and balance…

Yeah, I think that’s it.

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RE: For those of you that have met your O/one on CM wha... - 12/21/2009 6:06:07 AM

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The very fact that he even saw my profile on here...well, I guess you could call that luck, kismet, or a blessing. It still blows both our minds that He (from 800 miles away) even saw my profile and then decided to drop me a line (when I really wasn't even looking). The fact the He DID see it and DID say something still strikes us both as strange. We're just glad He did. Once the initial contact was made, I credit our success to the fact that we fell head over heels for everything about each other. It was just a perfect match and meant to be

luci

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RE: For those of you that have met your O/one on CM wha... - 12/21/2009 1:14:32 PM

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Everything about this relationship and the way we relate to each other has us both believing this is a long long long term deal. We talk about everything. If there's a misunderstanding, we talk it through, drama free. We respect each other. We LIKE each other. We want what's best for each other and this relationship. We have both learned from relationship failures - about ourselves, about what worked, about what didn't work, etc. And we are moving very slowly, honestly, lovingly, etc. Love is our foundation, and it is expressed regularly.

Still pretty new (under a year) but very promising.

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RE: For those of you that have met your O/one on CM wha... - 12/21/2009 1:16:39 PM

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respect
communication
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RE: For those of you that have met your O/one on CM wha... - 12/21/2009 1:59:11 PM

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Honesty, respect, and a sense of humor. Also PATIENCE and good use of the delete and block button lol. I don't really think it was anything 'special' per say, but rather an honest and realistic rendering of what i was looking for in a M/s relationship. When people responded to me, i took the time to see if their wants and needs were the same as mine.I had to deal with A LOT of cock pictures, suck my dick, kneel slut, submit to me bitch,

, and then a few good people but just not the right for me before He came along

as perfect match.

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RE: For those of you that have met your O/one on CM wha... - 12/21/2009 3:37:31 PM

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Willing to be open and try someone new in the face of so many that are only out for themselves. It's hard work looking for a partner. It takes perserverance, an open heart/attitude to keep trying again, and a good work ethic.

Being honest and recognizing the same being given in return. Also be smart and be selective. Trust but verify.

All that plus something just clicked in a major way

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RE: For those of you that have met your O/one on CM wha... - 12/21/2009 5:24:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

Everything about this relationship and the way we relate to each other has us both believing this is a long long long term deal. We talk about everything. If there's a misunderstanding, we talk it through, drama free. We respect each other. We LIKE each other. We want what's best for each other and this relationship. We have both learned from relationship failures - about ourselves, about what worked, about what didn't work, etc. And we are moving very slowly, honestly, lovingly, etc. Love is our foundation, and it is expressed regularly.

Still pretty new (under a year) but very promising.

I am so happy for you, NuevaVida. You so deserve this

luci

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RE: For those of you that have met your O/one on CM wha... - 12/21/2009 5:35:39 PM

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Don't know what to say, still seeking my One. Wanted to say something, anything to stay focused.

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RE: For those of you that have met your O/one on CM wha... - 12/21/2009 5:35:52 PM

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Thank you, sweet luci. We have so much FUN together (I forgot to put that up there). It's unbelievably cool.

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RE: For those of you that have met your O/one on CM wha... - 12/21/2009 6:03:17 PM

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his persistence at the beginning, his personality and God.

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RE: For those of you that have met your O/one on CM wha... - 12/21/2009 9:47:55 PM

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Catchmaster Flypaper of course.

Never leave home without it.

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RE: For those of you that have met your O/one on CM wha... - 12/22/2009 12:37:34 AM

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I met my slave from CM. We only traded a few messages over a few month period. Then we decided what the hell lets meet and hang out for the day. Sometimes you have to take a chance, normaly I would have did tons of phone talk to screen. We liked each other at first and had alot in common, a very good foundation for a great start. We spent alot of time together for six months, she moved in last Christmas, which make us a year together now. I credit the success to the deep honest communication we had the first six months. I had a vision of the present and future that I was able to present. She was interested in it because we were on the same page. We both knew there are plenty of lifestylers out there and it is hard to find a good match.

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