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MMagic -> RE: Sub Love (tm) (12/22/2009 9:59:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

~~FR~~

i personally took the OP to mean... When she was talking to a friend who is also an s-type, they were expressing that feeling "we s-types" have for our "D-types" of course its not universal... but i took it as a "Hey, do you guys know what i mean?"

So to the OP....yes i can dig it...
[;)]



LOL yes that's about right. Lack of sleep makes my already complicated thought processes even MORE complicated. Sometimes one should just go to sleep and stop trying to find the meaning of the universe.




littleone35 -> RE: Sub Love (tm) (12/22/2009 11:35:35 AM)

I love my Master no thats not right i am IN LOVE with him (yes better) i mean i can love lots of people. My parents, my sibs, my friends. Master i am in love with i think there is a huge difference. Sub love i gues you could call it that i am his sub and i love him so maybe. To me is is just deep, true and abding love.

Mattt's littleone




honeygirl -> RE: Sub Love (tm) (12/22/2009 11:46:09 AM)

Dagnabbit, you beat me to the trademark, MM!!!

This totally resonates with me! Like you, I'm not indicating this is better than what non-BDSM partners feel, just that I, personally, never felt *this* when I dated people not interested in BDSM.

Mmmmm....so good [;)]




MMagic -> RE: Sub Love (tm) (12/22/2009 1:35:10 PM)

Yes Honey, that's what I'm getting at. I think it's different BECAUSE of the free to be BDSM, it is for me at least. But not BETTER.  




breatheasone -> RE: Sub Love (tm) (12/22/2009 6:45:32 PM)

MMagic, i happen to LOVE Mae West...shes my fuckin Hero! One of my favorite lines from her is...

When a woman commented on her (Mae West) diamonds by saying, "Goodness what big diamonds!"  Mae West replied, "Goodness had nothin to do with it."




MMagic -> RE: Sub Love (tm) (12/22/2009 8:47:53 PM)

I love her too. My other one is, it's not the men in my life...it's the life in my men. ;)




DesFIP -> RE: Sub Love (tm) (12/23/2009 6:45:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: honeygirl

Dagnabbit, you beat me to the trademark, MM!!!

This totally resonates with me! Like you, I'm not indicating this is better than what non-BDSM partners feel, just that I, personally, never felt *this* when I dated people not interested in BDSM.

Mmmmm....so good [;)]


That's because you're wired for this kind of relationship. You couldn't feel this way in a nonBDSM relationship because you weren't wired for that and therefore couldn't have all your needs met.

But someone who is wired for an egalitarian relationship would think of a submissive partner as someone incapable of making a decision and would think of a dominant partner as a control freak. They wouldn't feel like this in a bdsm relationship because they aren't wired for it.

It isn't something special about what we do, it's that we are in relationships that fulfill us totally where our authentic selves are known and welcomed.




alittleevil -> RE: Sub Love (tm) (12/23/2009 7:54:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
It isn't something special about what we do, it's that we are in relationships that fulfill us totally where our authentic selves are known and welcomed.



Yes.

Best to you,
aj




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