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vulpes -> Hello, from Canada! (12/21/2009 8:15:14 PM)
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Hi, everyone.
I'm also new to the site/kinks/fetishes/BDSM/the lifestyle.
A little about me - I'm a lesbian, through and through. Currently working in a bakery as a Baker's Assistant. Submissive. Monogamous. I like the term 'kinkster' because it's open to the imagination. What I hope to accomplish by being here... I hope to meet like-minded friends.
I just don't have a clue how to make my profile stand out. I want it to be unique and draw the right kind of attention, but I also don't want to write my life story for all to see. Finding a happy medium between boring and imaginative is... enough to make a person feel lost.
And... do lesbian tops exist? I feel as though I'm in a competition with all the male submissives seeking a FemDom (FemDomme?). And, if vibrators and dildos are considered kink, are all lesbians who use toys involved in BDSM, at least, to a degree? Since, I haven't seen healthy relationships exist where there isn't a Top/bottom dynamic?
I suppose I'm still a little confused.
Cheers, and I look forward to chatting with you all!
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