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intruducing myself - 12/22/2009 8:21:45 AM

dontevenask

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hi everyone

so far i haven't met anyone or done anything and probably never will because nobody wants someone like me

too old

online i get asked by young whores to send them money

"as if"

that is to be expected

i think why i keep returning to this BDSM stuff is the fantasies are compelling

and what is compelling is mysterious

and i am curious

i'm done with vanilla anyway

i doubt there are any Women like who i can imagine
it seems to me there wouldn't be such a big deal supporting a fantasy if the reality was available
if the reality was there, then who would be spending all this time and effort maintaining the fantasy? nobody, because they would be busy with real life instead. just by the size and popularity of the fantasy i can tell it's highly unrealistic. except as another way for men to send money to women that is related to sex. the shelves will never be bare of sex products for men to spend money on.

such are the thoughts i have while being ignored and unwanted

i'm not really a slave, i just fantasize about it
i also fantasize about being a dominant
and winning the lottery
and a few other things

but i could be and would be
this or anything else that would make it possible
to feel and matter

no such luck
and so the fantasies
and the industry of fantasy
from hollywood to the web

and the luckless who introduce themselves online
proving that hope cannot count the odds against it
and nothing about appearing pathetic can deter a man from showing up to beg

and long walks on the beach
and ten lashes that prove you care
and tears that say i felt your rage
yet i'm still here for you

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RE: intruducing myself - 12/22/2009 8:27:37 AM

mnottertail

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you a country western songwriter of some kind?

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RE: intruducing myself - 12/22/2009 9:22:58 AM

MMagic

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Too old? what are you 101? I'd say try at least, life is too short to want something and at least not TRY to get it. Welcome anyway.

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RE: intruducing myself - 12/22/2009 9:37:18 AM

sunshinemiss

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Hello op,
I stopped reading at "because nobody wants someone like me"
If you believe it... it is true. Did you say something after that?
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RE: intruducing myself - 12/22/2009 5:08:12 PM

DarkSteven

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Fella, quit whining and get out there.

While you're at it, make your profile visible. Else you're like a fisherman complaining that the fish won't bite, but not putting a pole on the water.

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RE: intruducing myself - 12/22/2009 5:10:51 PM

zephyroftheNorth

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Ummm you joined yesterday....

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RE: intruducing myself - 12/22/2009 5:19:42 PM

tsatske

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don't even ask,
You have no profile. how is anyone supposed to meet you.
so this is my advice, and it works fairly well, rather you're sub, Dominant, switch, or unsure, whenever you are ready to quit whining and step out of fantasy land,
because there are millions who don't spend their time fantasizing, but live this life every day. here's how to join them:

go to google and enter than name of your city state and the words 'BDSM munch'. Then go to one. go every month. eventually you will get invited to a party.

read a lot and do some research. learn about people who are living it and learn the ways that real life is the same as your fantasy, and the way it is differant.

Get up a profile here and on other 'face book of BDSM' type sites, then, with an active profile, get actively involved in the forums, discussing, learning, meeting people.

Good luck in your search.

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RE: intruducing myself - 12/22/2009 5:33:12 PM

CarrieO

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Well, aren't you just a little ray of sunshine....

As I read your post, OP, for some reason I thought of THIS .

I'd like to say enjoy your stay but I have a feeling it might be more than you can handle.

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RE: intruducing myself - 12/23/2009 2:28:37 AM

choccywoc

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Thanks for that, i thought i had problems.

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RE: intruducing myself - 12/23/2009 2:11:18 PM

tsatske

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choccywoc,
felt compelled by your post to go perve your profile, and it left me asking these two quesitons:
why, oh, why was I not born a Dominant woman,
and why haven't you been snapped up by now.

By the way, I love the way you do those short, twittery journal entries, like windows into your world, indeed; but what I really love is the titles. but I'm wierd like that. the name on a painting is often the thing that I fall in love with.
by the way, what is a caymen? I mean, assuming you didn't pick up a private island at a bargain....

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RE: intruducing myself - 12/26/2009 5:24:44 AM

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24 hours after you joined.....this has to be a record.

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RE: intruducing myself - 12/28/2009 4:27:57 AM

choccywoc

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Thanks for those kind words tsatske, why haven't i been snapped up? Well maybe the right one is still to come along. Oh and by the way, a Cayman is a Porche. One of those expensive German fun cars.

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