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RE: Misperceptions of your partner - 3/19/2006 6:38:35 PM

Merritt27

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There were just two misperceptions on my part. i did enter my relationship with PlayfulOne foolishly thinking that i would be able to "sweet talk" him or flirt my way into whatever i wanted. WRONG! He's a bigger flirt than i could dream of being.....and knows all my tricks! The other was not necessarily a misperception concerning him....but a misperception none the less. i thought that i hadle on what being a sub meant......LOL. Not even close. It took meeting Him to fully understand what submitting to someone meant, and to find out i would give all of myself to Him, willingly.

Congratulations KofM and Kyra! i wish Y/you both the very best in the years to come.

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RE: Misperceptions of your partner - 3/19/2006 8:10:41 PM

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i had this inane misconception that he was God or atleast a God atleast for a short period of time = )

i eventually realised he truely WAS human.. not just some wierd perception that popped up every now and then.

I lost my faith

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RE: Misperceptions of your partner - 3/19/2006 9:00:27 PM

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I think one of my misconceptions was..that I would be able to manipulate him...now I know how that sounds...but Im not meaning it in a bad way...just you know....if i wanted something or whatever....persuasion perhaps..or...I dont know..I dont think Im saying this very well....but anyways... I can't.

i know exactly what you are saying. i thought that, too....oh so long ago...lol

my biggest misperception, however, was that he couldn't hear what i was saying. Not only can he and did he, but he heard everything in between, as well.

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RE: Misperceptions of your partner - 3/19/2006 9:19:09 PM

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My misperceptions before we actually met face to face?

That he was superficial...only a player...and only cared about his own needs.

That he would never let himself care about me.

That he didn't need someone in his life who is quirky and off-center, who giggles a lot, and pulls him out of his oh-so-serious mode...

That we could play together for a time...be apart...play...and not be confused by unexpected emotions.

That I could never matter to him.

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RE: Misperceptions of your partner - 3/20/2006 1:12:28 PM

champagnewishes

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Congratulations...and may the next year prove to be as inspiring as the first.

I am a pretty good judge of people. In the rare instances where i have been wrong, it's either because i myself was not seeing the reality of them or i was seeing something that they themselves had not yet discovered.

Having said that, there is always the exception to the rule...such as thinking He was ready for a relationship when in fact he really wasn't. Chalk it up to the joys of meeting online first.

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RE: Misperceptions of your partner - 3/20/2006 9:39:20 PM

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Our relationship is new, less than a year. I have related to Himself as more of the Daddy type. I felt like He was not so much into sadism or getting after me in a raunchy, demanding way (which I love).

Well, maybe i am beginning to bring out His sadistic bent. We've been deprived of each other's company for 2 weeks due to travel and business. He confessed to me that he was really in a mood to beat someone over the weekend when he went to a play party without me. He also then filled me in on the details of His wanting to have His sadistic way with me when we finally see each other tomorrow. It should be HOT!

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RE: Misperceptions of your partner - 3/21/2006 10:27:45 AM

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I didnt think that I could be lied to as well as I had been, My misconception then is with 2, first witht the perosn who lied and secondly that I am not as good at seeing the lies as I thought. My eyes are open a lot wider now. ~BK~

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RE: Misperceptions of your partner - 3/21/2006 10:43:51 AM

Sirandlittle1

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My misconceptions of him, or rather his role were huge. I had read heaps about D/s before i got into it, so came with many preconceived ideas that needed adjusting along the way. Mostly about how he likes to prat around and have fun. And should a Dom be like that? lol
But my main area of misconception is of myself. Many beliefs ive held for years about myself have been shown to not be real. My core characteristics changed once in a D/s relationship. They were defenses, not who i truly was. But until someone undid them, id not seen this other side of me ever before. I have a lot of respect for both the misconception, and this new me. Both are real, but some are not necessarily needed or believed in now.
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