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Elisabella -> RE: DOMs Asking For Gifts (12/25/2009 8:18:42 AM)
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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero
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ORIGINAL: Elisabella
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5. What if a DOM tells you your not obeying him or trusting him by not buying him said gift?
5. He's an emotionally manipulative creep, and possibly a sociopath.
Huh?
How does pointing out to an s-type that they are "not obeying" when they refuse to do what is demanded of them anything but clearly factual?
Dom: "Do the dishes."
sub: "No. I don't want to."
Dom: "You're not obeying."
sub: "You're being an emotionally manipulative creep."
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Taken in context of the situation (3 months online, wanting her to spend money on an expensive gift for him rather than fixing her car) and the attitude he's presented (saying he's "testing her," I assume saying or implying that he'll leave if she doesn't buy him something) I think there's an incredibly slim chance that he's in this to find a partner to commit to IRL. Can you imagine telling someone you were interested in seriously committing to that they should buy you a gift rather than have crucial repairs done on their car? How is that possibly a show of affection?
That being said I'd say anyone who does shit to "test" someone's commitment to a relationship or asks them to "prove" they are committed by doing something that has no bearing on the relationship whatsoever (aka "buy me something to prove you love me") is an emotionally manipulative creep, and possibly a sociopath.
ETA: To clarify I'm not talking about tribute Dom/mes who say up front they want a financial slave. I'm talking about people who claim to be in a relationship because they want to be with that other person who expect gifts as a show of love.
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