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Pet Ownership, etiquette, description, titles - 12/24/2009 6:21:31 PM

kikiK

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Merry Christmas Eve!
*sigh*
I need some help finding information or to be able to talk to pet owners.
Lifestyle change happening.
When I search I end up going round and round on the intraweb.
If anyone knows or is an actual pet owner and also some info web URLs, that would be wonderful.
Or even the correct place to ask or be on collarme, lol!

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RE: Pet Ownership, etiquette, description, titles - 12/24/2009 6:29:16 PM

tsatske

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Are you a pet, or is pet the way you happen to describe your own submissive tendencies, though you are currently unowned?
If it is the second, many Doms, and many s types, for that matter, are open to a number of different dynamics, if they meet the right person. The right Dom might not identify as a 'pet owner' out of the box, but might be very willing to have that interplay in ownership of you, when you work up to that point.

I would suggest several things:
In answer to your specific quesiton, just write Doms that seem interesting, be polite in the normal vanilla way of polite, throw in a Sir if you are so inclined, mention what you liked on their profile or where ever they caught your eye to let them know you read it.

In general, read the boards and post to any topic that interests you. You will get known and that will get you some attention, too.

Find a munch, and go. Type the name of your city-state into google, with the words 'BDSM munch', and you will find one.

consider finding, joining, and participating actively in an all sub support group, either local to you as a branch perhaps of one of the munches, or online, such as a yahoo group.

getting to know people, including other subs of differant types, and Doms who might not be your type or might not even be on the 'market', is still the best way to meet the right one. Plus, you learn alot - and it's FUN.

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RE: Pet Ownership, etiquette, description, titles - 12/24/2009 6:41:13 PM

kikiK

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Thankyou so much for the quick response. Especially when my profile is so thin.
My pc is dying to dial up speed and the new desktop will not be set up until next weekend. So, I'm on my phone doing this, hence the thin profile and inability to navigate thus site very well.
May I message you privately?

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RE: Pet Ownership, etiquette, description, titles - 12/24/2009 6:47:40 PM

tsatske

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Of course. As my profile says, I answer all emails, and new friends and penpals in the lifestyle are always a good thing, esp other submissive women.

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