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Can this be between just us girls :) - 12/25/2009 9:37:17 AM

wykkidesire2plsU

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This is probably TMI, but it is on my mind and i cant talk about it with my daughter or my best friend, so hopefully you all wont mind.....

i usually gush like crazy when "playing" which is one of the things current Dom likes. However it seems the more we get together, it is going away!!!!

Why in the world when i played with lesser men, did i do it and now im with someone who that turns me on wayyyyy more than they did am i losing it?

i sure hope it is temporary, i dont think it is an age thing as it just started about two weeks ago. i had hysterectomy at 32 and have been on hormones since then so i dont think it is that, i went through "the change" back then.

Do you girls every go through periods when you can cum, but not squirt? I hope it comes back, i dont want him to think he doesnt rock my boat, the PE and playing and sex are out of this world, i dont know what is wrong :(.

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RE: Can this be between just us girls :) - 12/25/2009 9:47:11 AM

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I don't know how to answer that other than when I cum, it is so earth shattering that I could care less about gushing/squirting and neither would my partners. So if all things are going well, why worry about that?

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RE: Can this be between just us girls :) - 12/25/2009 10:13:20 AM

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So if all things are going well, why worry about that?

That is true :) It is not important in scheme of things, just weird. i will relax and enjoy, thanks for the reply and hope you are having a Happy Christmas day.

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RE: Can this be between just us girls :) - 12/25/2009 1:49:24 PM

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...i dont know what is wrong :(

Quit trying/thinking about it.

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RE: Can this be between just us girls :) - 12/25/2009 1:51:50 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: wykkidesire2plsU

This is probably TMI, but it is on my mind and i cant talk about it with my daughter or my best friend, so hopefully you all wont mind.....

i usually gush like crazy when "playing" which is one of the things current Dom likes. However it seems the more we get together, it is going away!!!!

Why in the world when i played with lesser men, did i do it and now im with someone who that turns me on wayyyyy more than they did am i losing it?

i sure hope it is temporary, i dont think it is an age thing as it just started about two weeks ago. i had hysterectomy at 32 and have been on hormones since then so i dont think it is that, i went through "the change" back then.

Do you girls every go through periods when you can cum, but not squirt? I hope it comes back, i dont want him to think he doesnt rock my boat, the PE and playing and sex are out of this world, i dont know what is wrong :(.

Did you have a total hysterectomy where they also removed your ovaries? If you didn't, guess what? You didn't fully experience menopause. My mom had a hysterectomy in her late twenties and thought, as you do, that she went through menopause at that time. Then when she was in her late fifties, her gynocologist told her that she was "just about done" with menopause.

I can completely understand how you feel. I have actually been apparently attempting the world record for taking forever to completely go through "the change." Started years ago, but last year, suddenly my ability to "self lubricate" dwindled quite a bit, although my desire didn't dwindle (actually went up) at all. Me being "dry" was not something my partner of nearly 14 years had ever experienced. He didn't seem to fret about it at all, but it made me crazy for a little bit. As sexyred1 said, if you are both still enjoying things, don't worry about it.

By the way, while I wouldn't say that the problem for me has completely cleared up, it has improved. Probably in great part because I stopped worrying about it.

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RE: Can this be between just us girls :) - 12/25/2009 7:20:04 PM

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Did you have a total hysterectomy where they also removed your ovaries?

Yep, both.

Tonight the worry seems silly, maybe i just needed spiced eggnog lol.

Thanks and Merry Christmas!

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RE: Can this be between just us girls :) - 12/26/2009 7:24:17 PM

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I too have noted some changes in my body chemistry..an increase in "dryness"episodes, though no lack of desire felt..so sometimes lube becomes necessary.I am able to gush at times and at times I do not..but either time wether I gushed or not..the orgasmic feeling was there..and I have no doubt I glowed replete and contented..or so have been told..wink wink..:0) Tempting

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RE: Can this be between just us girls :) - 12/26/2009 10:41:23 PM

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If you've been gushing a lot, perhaps your reserves in whatever glands cause the gushing have been depleted? Or you're just not getting enough pressure in the right spots? I'd like to think that as long as you're climaxing, neither of you should be concerned about the amount of fluid. Just be happy you have a guy who rocks your world as well as he does.

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RE: Can this be between just us girls :) - 12/26/2009 11:42:29 PM

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I was also going to say that perhaps you're dehydrated. Try upping your water intake.

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RE: Can this be between just us girls :) - 12/27/2009 1:36:53 AM

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Good Morning wykkidesire ,
i dont have an answer ,, but i have another question
is there anything else that worry you,,, in your relation with your new Dominant man
is there tought that you dont really like that cross your mind , or your mind racing about something
that could be an explanation too
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