LadyChallene
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someguy123 -
In this reply, you may find or feel, Me very formal, stiff-necked or a bit too straight-laced and caustic. I am not one who dislikes or discourages whistles from someone on the street, but I am not someone to fling one-liners at and I am not one to whom anyone should hurl catcalls at. One-liners can at times be exact, compact, even to the point and time saving. But, they are also more often so abrupt that they are almost certainly to the point of being over assuming and down-right rude. What little I read- because it was what little you wrote - says you are from Australia, good for you. Unless you are willing to relocate or only have an online relationship (which you would do better to say upfront), you would be better served to shop a bit closer to home. It also very clearly says that you are a 19 year old virgin. Funny, I have a 19 year old son, who is into this lifestyle as well. But, you know what? I have never heard him open his mouth to saying anything like you did. If you are looking to get off, do so ... but it is not very safe to advertise your lack of experience that directly unless you are actively looking to be taken advantage of! New or not, you need a deeper and more apparent sense of manners and communication. If you cannot communicate in your introduction, how is it that you think to communicate with anyone you wish a relationship with? If you approach it in the same manner you have your introduction, I can only see that you will find a relationship that will in the end only fail, on so very many levels.
If you are, in anyway, looking to capture a Dominant's attention or positively impress one, I suggest personal in-depth illuminations of yourself in all future correspondence and profile additions since you have no where but up to go from what you have listed. Your location, age, sex, few likes, tolerations and very few interests are not even a true beginning or a tease. Unless you are as one dimensional as your barely touched profile, FLESH it and you out. Become a person, not a flat faceless drone that will get passed over time after time because you won't - for whatever reason- give yourself the best chance that you can. Fill out your profile so that not only you know what you are and are not looking for and needing in someone, but She will know to either look deeper into you or pass you by because you are not what She is looking for. Either way, in the end, it saves EVERYONE time, trouble and heartache because they can see clearer what you are about. I find very few who want to venture blindly into the black hole of anyone with no name, description or sense of self-discovery about them.
I also seriously suggest providing a manner of address for you that is not your CM site ID. To me, it is distastefully impersonal and removed. Yes, My status (title) and name are My site ID, however they are a complete method of address that is telling rather than reserved or completely removed.
Best of luck and regards,
Lady Challene
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