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mstrslve4fun -> Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/29/2009 5:01:43 AM)
May i please ask those Doms who are into it, what is the attraction to humiliation of your slave/sub?

sunshinemiss -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/29/2009 5:56:27 AM)
Please do a search on the search button (upper right hand column). This question comes up about weekly. It gets old. Seriously.

osf -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/29/2009 8:46:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun May i please ask those Doms who are into it, what is the attraction to humiliation of your slave/sub? when i'm truly humiliating a woman it gets my cock hard don't bother asking my cock why, it's not telling

Justme696 -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/29/2009 8:47:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun May i please ask those Doms who are into it, what is the attraction to humiliation of your slave/sub? The weird thing is..my sub/slave always start to mention it. And then..I don't mind to give it a try. I am cautious with it.

Aswad -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/29/2009 10:38:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun May i please ask those Doms who are into it, what is the attraction to humiliation of your slave/sub? Best guess, it has something to do with conquest. When a man conquers another man, it is not uncommon for severe humiliation to follow as a form of dominance. I would guess the response isn't going to be all that different with regard to women. In my case, it certainly has some relation to that, but as with anything you do as a part of a sexual activity, an association will be formed, which makes it a turn-on in its own right. Health, al-Aswad.

mstrslve4fun -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/29/2009 10:41:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Please do a search on the search button (upper right hand column). This question comes up about weekly. It gets old. Seriously. i did, and the threads i saw didn't answer my question.

SL4V3M4YB3 -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/29/2009 10:49:31 AM)
What answer was you looking for, an answer you can understand? Why do people like CBT? I don't know, I could never understand because I am incapable of understanding. Any answer I get to this question I will be unhappy with.

antipode -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/29/2009 11:58:54 AM)
quote: i did, and the threads i saw didn't answer my question. Then you won't get an answer here. The answers don't change, you know.

MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/29/2009 1:47:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun Humiliation - what is the fascination? I'm sure this varies for all, but here's at least one crack at answering your question... The basic premise (and attraction) of the Power Dynamic is where one is dominant/in control, where the other is submissive/not in control. The humilation thing (which is frequently coupled with degradation, objectification, etc.) can simply add another layer/level to that. It affords the participants not just a CHOICE to dominate or submit, but in a way (mentally/emotionally) FORCES the s-types submission to the D-type. A mental mind-fuck, if you will. It adds that additional layer/level... a kind of "how LOW can you go" type of thing, both mentally and emotionally. For those who enjoy this type of scenario, it's a mental/emotional CRUSHING (so to speak)... increase the level of dominance and submission.... and increasing one's control over the other. In a way, it's akin to the use of restraints. I mean really... one could argue there is no point in using cuffs and rope if the other has already consent to submission... but the restraints add yet another layer/level. The same is true for those that enjoy the humiliation, degradation, objectification elements of the Power Dynamic. Just one more layer/level to play with... mentally and emotionally. A way of feeling like everything and nothing... at the SAME time. For others, it goes deeper than this... for example, for those that may have self-esteem/worth issues, it works to allow them to revel in that low self-esteem/worth feelings... or even return to that mental/emotional "place" as a round-about way of self-healing; much in the same way those who have rape fantasies often wish to return to THAT mental/emotional "place" in order to gain control of a scenario where they had no control. A form of self-help/healing, so to speak. Anyway, hopefully the above provides some explanations to hang your hat on... I'm sure there are others. [:)]

osf -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/29/2009 2:17:18 PM)
for some reason we were wired differently than the norm i don't think we can heal as there is nothing wrong, we're just different, some of us will have had earlier issues added to the mix. but we mostly would have been this way regardless human psychology being not on a fixed point, some are going to be on the down side of the bell curve , some on one side, some on the other we are made of many different character traits, we just have some traits that cause us to express our sexuality out side the norm it had to happen to some and we're it maybe our sexuality icomes from a more primitive level than the norm, primitive and primal, watch cats, it's more like rape than love, very primal i know i feel primal at that time and i've had subs that stopped thinking and became sensation receptors, it was just feeling

sunshinemiss -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/29/2009 5:58:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Please do a search on the search button (upper right hand column). This question comes up about weekly. It gets old. Seriously. i did, and the threads i saw didn't answer my question. Here's a search I did... thank goodness for Lucky Albatross who is librarian extraordinaire! http://www.collarchat.com/m_1267230/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#1267254 http://www.collarchat.com/m_557686/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#557707 Embarassment vs humiliation http://www.collarchat.com/m_354018/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#354196 humiliation??? http://www.collarchat.com/m_412944/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#413037 what is good humiliation to you? http://www.collarchat.com/m_426015/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#426025 humiliation vs degradation http://www.collarchat.com/m_489256/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#489324 humiliation and vulnerability http://www.collarchat.com/m_310209/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#310223 Humiliation- verbal and physical http://www.collarchat.com/m_266448/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#266532 humiliation ideas Slaves on display via webcam? Fat Cow? Verbal humiliation (rehashed) Humiliation and Degradation Erotic Humiliation Female Humiliation- in the scene Asking for humiliation Favorite Forms of humiliation Humiliation Humliation Play Favorite forms of humiliation Erotic Humiliation and Objectification Why such problems with humiliation? Fun ideas for humiliation Humiliation (2) Verbal Humiliation Help with humiliation please! Your thoughts on humiliation please Questions about humiliation

aldompdx -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/30/2009 7:20:28 PM)
Humiliation is erroneously associated by the humiliator's ego as humility.

SL4V3M4YB3 -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (12/31/2009 3:30:36 PM)
I think I can help you with that cryptic crossword clue.

batshalom -> RE: Humiliation - what is the fascination? (1/1/2010 8:13:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrslve4fun May i please ask those Doms who are into it, what is the attraction to humiliation of your slave/sub? For me it's because anyone can make a bed, suck a cock, or wear a collar. When we're in a humiliation scene I have to dig down deep and submit from a place where my mind isn't allowed to go. I have to do rather than think. It's not easy but the accomplishment gets me off.

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