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Lucienne -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 7:30:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

SR?... she was refering Psycho in a derogatory manner.

I had to read it twice also...:)



Jeff


Sorry...  "Sunshine" is one of those "warning!" terms of endearment for me. 




sunshinemiss -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 7:33:20 AM)

oooo.  I'm a warning.
Some would call that accurate.  [:)]




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 7:33:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Justme696

lol

I have to look up that word..overthingy....lol



Overthingy (patent pending) is what covers the misothingy, when not engaging in the internalthingy....and sometimes, the overthingy is misused as a gag, although the possible side-effects of that misuse have not been documented.




Jeffff -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 7:34:30 AM)

LOLOLOLOLOL!


no shit!


Jeff




Justme696 -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 7:34:59 AM)

I am afraid it will hurt when used....the thingy




Lucienne -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 7:35:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne


Sunshine...you're overweight, geeky and full of yourself. You're also giving yourself way too much credit for reading about stuff as experience. Instead of trying to bluff your way into a relationship, why don't you take a deep breath, take the attitude down a notch, and open your mind up to learning more from people. Yes, even people with unusual fonts. I know, it took me a while to get used to the goofy colors and shit. But some pretty wise things are written around here in purple.



Wow, nasty much?


Lol. Whatever, pissy pants. Just offering psychonaut a reality check.



Sorry, I thought you were referring to Sunshinemiss, as she did as well.


As already explained, "sunshine" was used as a term of endearment. I'm not accustomed to it being a person's real name, (or screen name) so I didn't anticipate the confusion. The fact that it came in a long post addressed to psychonaut, well... I think there were opportunities to realize I wasn't talking to sunshinemiss, but I apologize for any confusion.

As for pissy pants, would you have written your post if you'd understood I was talking about psychonaut? I'm guessing not? So, maybe, you weren't really impressed by my nastiness as much as offended by the perceived target?




Jeffff -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 7:36:07 AM)

It is supposed to hurt...

another requirement



Jeff




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 7:36:22 AM)

It all hurts, the first time....least, that's what I was told....

umm...doesn't it?




Justme696 -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 7:36:54 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

It is supposed to hurt...

another requirement



Jeff



ok..with out pain it would be boring anyway




sexyred1 -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 7:39:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne


Sunshine...you're overweight, geeky and full of yourself. You're also giving yourself way too much credit for reading about stuff as experience. Instead of trying to bluff your way into a relationship, why don't you take a deep breath, take the attitude down a notch, and open your mind up to learning more from people. Yes, even people with unusual fonts. I know, it took me a while to get used to the goofy colors and shit. But some pretty wise things are written around here in purple.



Wow, nasty much?


Lol. Whatever, pissy pants. Just offering psychonaut a reality check.



Sorry, I thought you were referring to Sunshinemiss, as she did as well.


As already explained, "sunshine" was used as a term of endearment. I'm not accustomed to it being a person's real name, (or screen name) so I didn't anticipate the confusion. The fact that it came in a long post addressed to psychonaut, well... I think there were opportunities to realize I wasn't talking to sunshinemiss, but I apologize for any confusion.

As for pissy pants, would you have written your post if you'd understood I was talking about psychonaut? I'm guessing not? So, maybe, you weren't really impressed by my nastiness as much as offended by the perceived target?



If someone was nasty to you, I suppose you could be nasty right back. I responded the way I did because, as I stated, I thought you meant someone else who is nothing but nice and thoughtful in their postings.

I am not really impressed by nastiness; I live in the NYC area, we are used to much worse. We can all be uber bitches if required.

But its all good now, no problem.




LadyPact -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 10:30:13 AM)

Speaking of things written around here in purple..... lol.  (Thanks for the compliment if that was directed at Me, btw.)

I realize this is a deviation from the original topic, but since it came up during the thread, it's worth addressing.  It goes to the familiar stance of 'know the laws regarding your play' credo.  I'm not here to bash anyone's kink (rape play while intoxicated) at the same time, it's important for folks to know that, in some states, even if prior consent was obtained during the evening, it can still be a convictable offense.  In about a third of the States, such as CA where I live, you might want to be darn careful in engagin in this activity if you'd like to remain a free man.



INTOXICATING ENCOUNTERS: ALLOCATING RESPONSIBILITY





2. The Man’s Responsibility California’s rape statute is representative of the minority approach, which assigns responsibility to the man when there is an allegation of nonconsensual sexual intercourse with an intoxicated woman. The rape-by-intoxication provision states that “[r]ape is an act of sexual intercourse accomplished . . . [w]here a person is prevented from resisting by any intoxicating or anesthetic substance, or any controlled substance, and this condition was known, or reasonably should have been known by the accused.”[1] This provision prohibits sexual intercourse with a victim incapable of providing legal consent as a result of intoxication, regardless of whether actual consent was given.[2] Therefore, the main issue is whether the victim had the capacity to exercise the reasonable judgment required to give legal consent.[3] If “the level of intoxication and the resulting mental impairment [was] so great that the alleged victim could no longer exercise reasonable judgment[,]” then the victim was prevented from resisting.[4] The statute does not require that a victim become so intoxicated that she is physically unable to speak or display a lack of actual consent.[5] However, mere intoxication “to some degree,” or intoxication that “reduced the [woman’s] sexual inhibitions” is not sufficient.[6] As one California prosecutor explained from her experience prosecuting rape-by-intoxication cases, the intoxicated victim must be so “out of it” that she does not understand what she is doing or what is going on around her.[7] It is not a situation where the victim just “had too much to drink.”[8] Under this statutory scheme, a woman who is voluntarily intoxicated may use this provision to raise an allegation of rape. The jury then determines whether the victim met the requisite level of intoxication to render herself incapacitated.[9] Therefore, from the minority perspective, the woman’s severe intoxication inculpates the man accused of rape. The man assumes the risk of responsibility for rape when he engages in sexual intercourse with a voluntarily intoxicated woman.
[1].Cal. Penal Code § 261(a)(3) (West 2003). [2].People v. Giardino, 82 Cal. Rptr. 2d 315, 321 (Ct. App. 2000). [3].Id. [4].California Jury Instructions, Criminal §ALJIC 1.23.2 (West 2003). [5].Giardino, 82 Cal. App. 4th at 464. [6].California Jury Instructions, Criminal §ALJIC 1.23.2. [7].Telephone Interview with Nancy O’Malley, supra note 56. Ms. O’Malley has been with the Alameda County District Attorney’s Office for nineteen years. Id. Other than her responsibilities as Chief Assistant District Attorney, she is also the current chair of the Sexual Assault Committee for the California District Attorney’s Association (CDAA). Id. [8].Email from Nancy O’Malley, Chief Assistant District Attorney, Alameda County District Attorney’s Office, to aAuthor (Oct. 7, 2003, 07:58:04 PST) (on file with author). [9].See Giardino, 82 Cal. App. 4th at 470 (citing People v. Griffin, 117 Cal. 583, 585 (1897)); cf. Telephone Interview with Nancy O’Malley, supra note 56 (explaining that, in reality, if a woman is intoxicated the prosecutor needs independent corroboration of the woman’s level of intoxication to get a conviction, though it is not a legal requirement).







heartcream -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 11:29:45 AM)

psychonaut whoa angry much? All I really got out of your posts was defensive abusive name calling, "fucking idiot" etc. Your posts read like you are yelling even in unbolded lower case. I guess your moniker was well thought through?

Forum Hag?

Forum Hag.

I think there is a cyber t-shirt in there somewhere.




mnottertail -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 12:53:50 PM)

son, you need to get you some cases of beer and a woman, drain some of that load off you, jesus h fuckin christ man!!!!!

Ron




littlewonder -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 12:54:43 PM)

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Getting pissed off because people are making nasty little attacks on your sexuality, ion things that cut deep into the core of who we are, that's not unreasonable.


uumm...dude...it's the internet. If it's making you angry..no matter what is said...time to shut it off and walk away and get some fresh air and deal with your real life and maybe even some therapy if what people you don't even know personally on a computer screen are making you this agitated.




sexyred1 -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 12:55:41 PM)

I agree, Psychonaut23, calm down. In the end, it is all pixels on a screen, no? Listen to Ron, he is the MAN!




hopelessfool -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 12:57:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23
Getting angry because someone dissed your favorite band on the internet is ridiculous.  Getting pissed off because people are making nasty little attacks on your sexuality, ion things that cut deep into the core of who we are, that's not unreasonable.  What is unreasonable is to suggest that someone shouldn't be offended and insulted when another person implies they are a rapist and deserve to be in jail.


As the offended party i feel the need to say, I dont think your a rapist... ^_^;; Just somethings come off that set the back of my hair on edge and makes me want to bring about a lot harm to said person. I promise to not to cut off your penis, if you promise only to molest me when im completely sober and asking for you to do as suck K.k?

^_^ now back to the topic at hand...

that male, who isnt poly, isnt married, and isnt cheating on someone and who wont cheat on me... somewhat local? that happens to enjoy a great sub who has tattoos and piercings? (and mostly unnatural hair color on a regular basis, with a great personality.)




EbonyWood -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 1:03:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23

Not quite sure what I did to make you not like me -- it appears I didn't kowtow and kiss your ass enough for your tastes -- but why don't you just ignore me instead of taking potshots at me and pretending it's helpful advice.  Because you're advice only makes me think you're a useless cunt.  It's not actually helpful.



Might be a clue in your own post here, Chuckles.
 
I haven't really read any of your posts in depth to have more than a passing disinterest, but you might want to ease up the compliments. Leave some chicks for the rest of us, you smooth talker.





osf -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 1:09:27 PM)

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Every internet forum has them.  Almost always women, generally very passive-aggressive, prone to dogpiling, like to wave their e-dick around a lot, always telling you what to do, how to act, how to speak.  Operate under the assumption that they own the forum.  A favorite tactic of the forum hag is to follow another user around the forum making digging, needling comments (none that break the TOS in letter, if not spirit) on everything they post until that person rightfully snaps and calls them a useless twat, then turn around and report to the mods.  Lucienne, Lady Angelika, LafeyetteLady, a few others.  These are this forum's hags.


they don't seem to realize that men read the threads and look on in shall we say amusement

if they are here trying to attract a man,,, well i just don't get their modus operandi with this behaviour

but they say they want a real man that can handle them, well i've news for them real men don't want to handle that kind of issue, maybe the needy and desperate but not the real man of their dreams, why should they

now i'll be the brunt of their attack, and they so don't get it, for every personal attack i get i get my profile viewed

in a perverse way they are my biggest boosters and despite saying this they will go on, because they can't help themselves, lololololol

they are what they are, thank you ladies, you too ron, may you get the domme of your dreams, you deserve no less




RedMagic1 -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 1:13:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23
A favorite tactic of the forum hag is to follow another user around the forum making digging, needling comments (none that break the TOS in letter, if not spirit) on everything they post until that person rightfully snaps and calls them a useless twat, then turn around and report to the mods. 

It's not against the terms of service of this site to call someone a useless twat.  It is, however, a good indication that someone lacks self-control and has no life outside of message boards, if he "rightfully snaps" instead of clicking the hide button, or turning off the computer and reading a book.

Also, if I were on a date with one of those forum hags you list, and she were wearing a tight skirt and talking the way she posts here, I might rightfully snap and tear her clothes off.  With my teeth.  Very slowly.  And we would flip a coin to decide which of us would be shouting, "No!  Stop!"




sexyred1 -> RE: on your list of requirements (12/31/2009 1:20:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23
A favorite tactic of the forum hag is to follow another user around the forum making digging, needling comments (none that break the TOS in letter, if not spirit) on everything they post until that person rightfully snaps and calls them a useless twat, then turn around and report to the mods. 

It's not against the terms of service of this site to call someone a useless twat.  It is, however, a good indication that someone lacks self-control and has no life outside of message boards, if he "rightfully snaps" instead of clicking the hide button, or turning off the computer and reading a book.

Also, if I were on a date with one of those forum hags you list, and she were wearing a tight skirt and talking the way she posts here, I might rightfully snap and tear her clothes off.  With my teeth.  Very slowly.  And we would flip a coin to decide which of us would be shouting, "No!  Stop!"



Ok, now that was hot....:)




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