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hrdmn -> approach (1/1/2010 1:10:12 PM)

How do you respond when aproached by a dom male all types



Dominasola -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 1:11:21 PM)

That depends a great deal on HOW they approach me.



MsLadySue -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 1:16:36 PM)

Since your profile says you are a dominant, why do you ask?



Wolf2Bear -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 1:19:35 PM)

In exactly the same manner in which they initially approached me. 



CalifChick -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 1:19:57 PM)

You're joking, right?

If someone has a weapon, I turn and go in the other direction.
If someone needs help, I generally give it.
If someone is friendly, I am friendly in return.
If someone is lost, I point out the way.
If someone is hungry, I feed them.

Now please tell me, what does gender and sexual orientation have to do with it?

Cali



littlewonder -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 1:21:41 PM)

How do you react when anyone approaches you?
If they treat me with politeness I respond politely.
If they don't then I ignore them and move on.



DarkSteven -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 1:28:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

Since your profile says you are a dominant, why do you ask?


He's assuming that this forum is just for subs, so he's asking them how he should best approach s types.



UniqueRaven -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 1:59:20 PM)

Well no matter who approaches me, i always respond respectfully and with courtesy.  And i reply to everyone, even if it's just a polite "no thank you."

Beyond that it depends on many factors, a few being what he says, is it spelled correctly (without textspeak), what his profile says, where he's at, his pictures (if any), and then what my status is at the time.  These are all variables that are unique to each interaction, so i can't commit to any more of a "blanket" response than the respect and courtesy i mention above.

i'm assuming we're talking just being messaged on CM here, not in real life where someone might be wanting to jump me with a knife or something.  That gets a different response.  [;)]



wisdomtogive -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 2:16:28 PM)

UniqueRaven..really nice pic

To the OP
Seldom will i respond to any cmails if they are typical generic in design.  i do not have to deal with that..yay me.:)



UniqueRaven -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 2:20:36 PM)

Thank you, thought i should change out the one where i'm in a Gorean slave pose.  Even though my ex Master used Gorean poses, i'm not a Gorean slave, and didn't want to cause confusion.  [:)]

And to stay on topic to the OP, i'll say it would help a great deal if we had more information.  If you're looking for the "best" way to message a sub/slave, there really isn't one (even though there are lots of not so good ways, ha ha!). 



antipode -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 2:54:44 PM)

quote:

How do you respond when aproached by a dom male all types


Wow, a whole sentence!



hrdmn -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 4:31:56 PM)

Some times being a man of few words is not a bad thing, now i see that this is not one of those occasions, Your all right in your responses, i will in the future think before i speak or type in this case,

U. R.     your right i did mean on here or sites like this, innitial contact. hope this clears up the confution
Hrdman



itsmeinLV -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 6:04:14 PM)

Depends on how they approach me first.  



Underumam -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 6:22:50 PM)

I try to respond in a cheerful manner, like I was reacquainting with an old friend. Unless of course, they act like arrogant wenches, then I hang up on them..lol.



amaidiamond -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 6:25:38 PM)

I generally respond with a polite response, even if that is "No thank you"

If an e-mail is rude I do not respond at all, I do not respond with rudeness as I see no reason to lower myself to it.



lizi -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 9:43:11 PM)

I always try to respond with a no thank you if I'm not interested but if I get a one word or one line email sometimes I just can't get up enough energy to want to do even that. If someone is rude screw em....I don't respond or sometimes give them a piece of my mind. If it's a polite inquiry I am polite in return.

The best way to get a response from a woman is to be polite, funny, and mention something from her profile. If it doesn't work remember that the women s types just get a lot of mail overall and aren't interested in everyone and then just keep trying.



ForeverOwned -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 10:16:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven

Well no matter who approaches me, i always respond respectfully and with courtesy.  And i reply to everyone, even if it's just a polite "no thank you." 


i am the same way. If i were single and looking i would stay away from people who had fancy screen names or who want to Dominate you the moment they meet you. That would make me kind of leary. That's just me though.
The best long lasting relationships that i have seen all started as vanilla.



MargueriteV -> RE: approach (1/1/2010 11:13:50 PM)

It depends. If they read/understood my profile and didn't message me like I'm less than, they get a polite response.

If they can't bring themselves to read my whole profile, or act like a jack, I verbally wail on them.  Most of the time I just hit delete.



Focus50 -> RE: approach (1/2/2010 2:53:11 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: hrdmn

How do you respond when aproached by a dom male all types

You treat them with the same respect and civility that they treated you with in their "approach".

An arsehole is still just a common or garden-variety arsehole, even if "it's MR Arsehole to you, bitch...!"

Focus.



stella41b -> RE: approach (1/2/2010 4:54:27 AM)

It depends on how they approach you. The grab pull and twist motion on their goolies works wonders if they've gone too far.



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