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At a BDSM event - 1/1/2010 9:03:32 PM

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i met a lesbian couple and the submissive called the other woman Master and Sir when she was talking to her. Since i didn't know either one of them i didn't feel right about asking this so i thought i would ask it here if you don't mind.
Whay do you think she would refer to another woman as Master and Sir? Is there a special reason for this? thanks so much. Happy New Year.

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RE: At a BDSM event - 1/1/2010 9:07:13 PM

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If I had to go out on a limb, I'd guess because that is how She wanted to be addressed...

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RE: At a BDSM event - 1/1/2010 9:24:08 PM

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A couple of subs, male of course, call Me 'Master' at particular moments, which I find very, VERY arousing.
They likely got the same sensation from it, on both sides of the kneel.

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RE: At a BDSM event - 1/1/2010 9:25:46 PM

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Thank you, so very much.

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RE: At a BDSM event - 1/1/2010 9:34:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned

i met a lesbian couple and the submissive called the other woman Master and Sir when she was talking to her. Since i didn't know either one of them i didn't feel right about asking this so i thought i would ask it here if you don't mind.
Whay do you think she would refer to another woman as Master and Sir? Is there a special reason for this? thanks so much. Happy New Year.

I know many butch lesbian tops that like to be called Sir.

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RE: At a BDSM event - 1/1/2010 9:46:41 PM

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Phonetically, yes, but I've seen it spelled as Syr.

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RE: At a BDSM event - 1/1/2010 9:47:24 PM

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Thanks! That's what i was thinking for her Sir was very butch.

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RE: At a BDSM event - 1/1/2010 9:52:23 PM

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Some of us feel that Master is a genderless title, just like slave. We know many female Masters, including Ourself.

A female being called, "Sir," is usually either an indication that they identify male in gender or is in reference to male energy that might be embodied in their relationship. We know many butch women who embrace, "Sir."

Master and Sir don't always go together, though most people assume they do. We prefer Ma'am as We identify as female in gender and sex.

And, finally, some just like the gender fuck.

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RE: At a BDSM event - 1/1/2010 10:01:10 PM

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That's another great insight. Thank you, so much.

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