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ORIGINAL: flatpat2002

Dear Mistresses,
Thank you for the info. i did go back and read his other threads and comments. They were not under the trample thread. It does appear that he is a classless asshole that has no idea how to treat a woman. That's why he so needs a keyboard and his right hand. And why his grammer and spelling suck.
However, my question remains because i and others have consistantly been treated badly on this and other forums/boards for only trying to reach out to others, and the only way is to ask. Even as subs/bottoms it still seems it's the guy that has to put it out there only to be rejected or worse. i know it's hard to weed out the idots from the sincere but thanks for listening.
pat

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ORIGINAL: walkonme10

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ORIGINAL: flatpat2002
However, my question remains because i and others have consistantly been treated badly on this and other forums/boards for only trying to reach out to others, and the only way is to ask. Even as subs/bottoms it still seems it's the guy that has to put it out there only to be rejected or worse. i know it's hard to weed out the idots from the sincere but thanks for listening.
pat

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ORIGINAL: flatpat2002

Hi all,
i had to comment on this. i'm a male bottom and i love trample(facesitting ass and foot worship also). i dont understand the anger men receive here on this subject.

Sometimes some attitude can be found here becasue of how someone says something. Someone announcing what they want or seek comes off as a selfish thing, sexually or kink motivated and as if a person just wants someone to service them, not presenting as though they see us dominant's as a person. Some of us could have had a rough day in email or something and will respond from that rough place. Some will simply be tired of wanker threads. lol

It seems spanking, domestic service, and most other things listed here are fine but this subject offends women here. (i know everyone has defferent likes)

I am not sure that is is that we take offense to certain kinks. I think there is someone out there that likes whatever it is. We are not offended, but may have an opinion on whatever it is whether we like it or not, bringing in to things... safety, realistic expectations and presentation.
 
i like it because i feel serving as a Mistresses floor is the most submissive position there is.

This would be your personal feelings on the most submissive position. Many would agree with you I am sure, but some would not.
 
You've been reduced to an object, to nothing more important than dirt under your Mistresses feet.

This too is a personal thing, but many of us do not want a submissive/slave to be reduced to an object and dirt below our feet. Some of us can get a bit impatient with this because many have some idea that this is what they wish to be and many are unrealistic in their expectations and some unhealthy in wanting to be nothing more. While some want this and it is a kink or whatever that they are involved in, many here are more interested in other things. Keep in mind that many try to force their kink or whatever in a way that isn't acceptable to many of us and many will believe that we all are the same and this is what a dominant woman does.
 
You flog people, you walk on floors. To me, trample is always psychologically pleasing, but Mistress with VERY little effort can make it punishing. Thanks for reading this and allowing me to give my thoughts on this.
pat

I do believe that most of us wish to know how people feel and what they think about things and you are as welcome to post these things as anyone else. How you do that is perceived as an individual thing (your's and other's) and might be how some respond to whatever is said by anyone. Stick around... you may see more reasons for some of what happens around here.. then again... there are many things that have no reasoning! lol