LadyAngelika
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer Every now and then, women send ouanque-mail too, Lady A. It's not entirely unknown. Just saying . . . Are you sure they are women? ;-) Oh yes, I'm sure they're women. Oh then you might suffer from the same stigma that I do then. Show a little sensuality in your pics, are a little hot, and bam! Show me the wanker! quote:
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And I'm not trying to say that we women can not be pervs. I'm quite the perv and proud of it! I tend however to share my pervy thoughts with people with who I have a pre-established rapport and in a context where it is appropriate. I guess that those who send pervy messages think - or convince themselves - that, since they're in CM, the 'context is appropriate' anyway. Pfft. The answer, for me, is quite traditional, really. In the days of yore boys and young men were taught how not to act like animals when approaching girls and women. I think it was recognised, back then, that males were somewhat hard-wired to be horny in a way that was overwhelming for their target females. With the advent of the Internet and sites like this, they need that kind of teaching all over again. Me, when I contact a woman, I'll pretty much avoid mention of kink altogether. Joke, make it light-hearted . . . because contact between two people in a sexually-charged atmosphere can feel stilted, heavy and somewhat cold. That'd be true of a vanilla nightclub; it's even more true of this site. Or so it all feels to me. Whatever, I don't think I've ever received an aggressive response, and I've seldom been ignored. And - maybe worth mentioning - many have replied, in a friendly way, without even first having looked at my profile. I've told you that you need to open a finishing school to show men how to approach women, right? quote:
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Speaking of which, you ran away last night! Elan was very sad... ;-) I can only imagine how forlorn he must feel. I'll see if I can scan one of my feet in one of my new, lycra/cotton mix socks, then email it to the poor lad. Oh I'm sure he would appreciate that very much! But even better would be a video of your toes wiggling in those socks. I have a funny feeling he likes wiggling toes ;-) - LA
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Une main de fer dans un gant de velours ~ An iron hand in a velvet glove
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