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internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 3:06:15 PM   
HisSweetElysium


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Status: offline 		I was curious if any subs had been charged with showing pictures of themselves taken by Master to others on the internet and if so, how you handled it.  I have 3 days to figure it out!  

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 3:11:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Charged, as in your Master wants you to do it?  Or you did it and got in trouble?

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 3:13:28 PM   
NormalOutside


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Status: offline 		She means "charged" as in "tasked". She's been told to decide how she's going to show her pussy to strange men on the interwebs.

I say you make a thread here, asking for volunteers to see the pictures.
I'll play! ;)


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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 3:15:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nope. Can't say I've had to do that. Is the problem that you don't want to do it or you don't know where to display them?

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 3:15:38 PM   
UniqueRaven


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Status: offline 		i see.  i don't see this as that hard?  As NormalOutside mentions, you could just put them on your profile and start a thread asking people for their "opinion" of them.

There are also newsgroups where you could post them, but i'm not sure you want *that* much attention.

You could also start a thread asking for people who might be interested in helping you with your assignment to view your pics, and then pick and choose who you might send them too.  i'm sure you'd get lots of volunteers, yep yep.


julie

edited to add:  Oh, and i'm obtuse at times.  i tend to be functional.  i would also like to know as Aqua asks if it is because it is difficult for you.  

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 3:18:06 PM   
osf


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HisSweetElysium

I was curious if any subs had been charged with showing pictures of themselves taken by Master to others on the internet and if so, how you handled it.  I have 3 days to figure it out!  


i guess being submissive is harder than i thought it was, glad i don't have to do it

but someone does

any volunteers?

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 3:19:16 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Nope thankfully.

He wants you to do it. Why not ask him how he wants you to do it since it was his idea??

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 3:24:48 PM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		There is actually a site (or used to be) called "ratemynudephoto.com" A friend of mine and I used to get drunk and go there for giggles. Always laughing at the men with the tiniest penises who posted. Haven't been there in years, don't even know if it exists anymore, but it would certainly be viewed.

One thing though, is that once you put it out there on the internet, you can't really ever take it back. Are you ok with that? Your picture could conceivably show up in all kinds of porn advertisements and pages. You wouldn't be getting paid for it and the world would be looking at your cooch. Just sayin'.

Good luck with your project

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 4:18:30 PM   
krikket


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Status: offline 		Nude pictures are a hard limit of mine, and i don't that will ever change.  I guess, for me, it's a case of knowing how things fly around the net at warp speed.  There will be times that the last thing i want to pop up is a nude picture of myself -- like a background check for a job, my grown ums doing a search on their family, the list goes on.  In past years i've been asked by some to take a nude pic of myself, and it just isn't going to happen.  The thing to remember is that no matter what we post it's gonna be somewhere forever.     Good luck with your decision.

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 4:31:50 PM   
HisSweetElysium


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Status: offline 		the pics are something we enjoy, so we do it together this is the first time He's asked me to share. I didn't know if it was appropriate to ask for volunteers on this board for such a thing, which is why I was asking how ppl went about fulfilling their Master's request.  I don't have a problem with it, and He's left it up to me to figure out how and with whom I share them, as long as it's someone, and I imagine He'll want to hear comments!  :) 

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 4:37:04 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		I realize dominants can demand whatever they desire of their subs but that one defies logic in my opinion. It's understandable that he wants to show his pride and joy to others but asking her to submit photos for display on the internet or even send them to others, exspecially if these are pictures of you naked, is asking for trouble. He/you have no idea where they may turn up to haunt you later. Personally, I strongly advise against doing so. Just my 2 cents worth.

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 4:45:55 PM   
osf


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HisSweetElysium

the pics are something we enjoy, so we do it together this is the first time He's asked me to share. I didn't know if it was appropriate to ask for volunteers on this board for such a thing, which is why I was asking how ppl went about fulfilling their Master's request.  I don't have a problem with it, and He's left it up to me to figure out how and with whom I share them, as long as it's someone, and I imagine He'll want to hear comments!  :) 



if there are nude pics outside your control you have to think they may wind up anywhere in the future cause they might

but if you're ok with it then you're ok with it and im not going to complain

i think that this sort of thing goes with the territory, if you call yourself a slave,

then to my way of thinking it's out of your hands

but then maybe i'm just being too litteral in my thinking

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 4:47:56 PM   
EbonyWood


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HisSweetElysium

I was curious if any subs had been charged with showing pictures of themselves taken by Master to others on the internet and if so, how you handled it.  I have 3 days to figure it out!  


I'd like to know what happens in 3 days time if you fail.
 
Before I offer any help. Hehe.

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 4:48:33 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HisSweetElysium

the pics are something we enjoy, so we do it together this is the first time He's asked me to share. I didn't know if it was appropriate to ask for volunteers on this board for such a thing, which is why I was asking how ppl went about fulfilling their Master's request.  I don't have a problem with it, and He's left it up to me to figure out how and with whom I share them, as long as it's someone, and I imagine He'll want to hear comments!  :) 


If you don't have a problem with it, you can always make a thread in "off-topic" asking for e-mail addresses of those who would like to see them.

I would suggest caution as well but... *shrugs* It's whatever you are comfortable with.

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 4:50:01 PM   
osf


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Status: offline 		once they are on the net . caution has been thrown to the winds

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 5:02:18 PM   
UniqueRaven


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Status: offline 		i'm just wondering what he's going for here. 

Humiliation?  Sounds like the pics don't particularly humiliate you. 

So then is it just exhibitionism?  Seeing the sexual/emotional response others get from looking at them? It sounds like that's the case.  So then as others have said my thoughts would be to definitely say gather emails of people who *want* to see the pics so that everyone involved is consenting to the process.  Plus they could give you the feedback he might be looking for, and the process could be that much hotter and fun for the two of you.

It isn't my place to try to read your Dom's mind, and i'm definitely not trying to do so.  i'm just wondering, as it seems to me that knowing why he wants you to show your pics to others is a big part of whatever he is trying to get you to learn and grow with by sharing them.




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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 6:17:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just make sure that your face is not in any of them.

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 6:33:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Just make sure that your face is not in any of them.


Ditto.


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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/3/2010 8:53:24 PM   
MargueriteV


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Status: offline 		Do you have to do it on the web?
If so ask your online buddies to help you.
If   you don't have to use the web you could show your pictures to people from your local bdsm community. Then  no one else would have access to a copy of them.

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RE: internet exhibitionism? - 1/4/2010 7:59:16 AM   
HisSweetElysium


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Status: offline 		thank you all for taking the time to write and advise.  It is not really my place to know His motivations, but if I had to guess it would be to try to dissuade me from feelings of embarrassment or reluctance to be open with my body. The pictures are from the first time He tied me up in any complicated sort of way, and I'm not embarrassed of how I look, just a bit shy I guess, LOL.

It does not have to be the internet, however there is really no one in my life I can share them with in any other way.  I see pics in ppls profiles here that are as revealing as most of the pictures, but I still would rather share them in a one on one capacity rather than add them to my profile. 

Still, this is all good food for thought. Maybe I am silly for not being more concerned about pics on the internet coming back to haunt me. I've done modeling before, including what would be construed as sexually charged, and partial nudity, and was asked to be a suicide girl at one point, and really considered it.  That stuff has been hard for me, but I did it anyway.

Master would like to take me to play parties and similar things, so I assume this is a step in that direction as well...


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