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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/4/2010 5:13:00 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: Underumam
For the rest of you who think you have me pegged, consider this- you have never inquired my side of this or any other story that I'm involved with, so the fact that you base your opinions and judgements on one half of the story, says that you are not qualified to judge anyone on anything. Much less be the wise women that you portray yourselves to be here. Anyone with eyes to see has already noticed this anyhow.......

Have fun.......


You got all that from a two word answer, huh?  That's pretty good.

I took you for face value at your words.  If you want to see hidden agenda in the reply that I gave you, so be it.  The fact is that I have no intention to prove how real, serious, or any other thing that I am as a Dominant woman.  It's an exercise in futility that I refuse to engage in.

Any time that any post is written, it is My belief that it is written for anyone to chose to respond to it.  I'm not looking for hidden agendas or any other meaning behind it other than what was presented.  Granted, you may have been trying to take a humorous turn by reversing or actually revisiting a common question that comes up here.  If that was your intent, I'm afraid you failed.

Perhaps, in the future, you might chose to express your thought for discussion in a different manner.  Something such as:

"It's often asked if there are serious Dommes/subs on these forums.  For those of you who have been searching or have found what you are looking for, to what do you attribute your success?  What has worked for you in the past or what methods to you employ in order to realize your goals?  Do you find that some Dommes/subs are more serious in their approach in various areas (i.e. play, protocol, public BDSM lifestyle, etc)?"

No, it is not the easiest thing to accomplish, getting a post or a reply to come out right if a person is still feeling the effects of space.  (I know this, because I've done it and I always remember things to add later when I thought I had conveyed them.)  I've also learned that I have to think carefully when I post and the endorphins are still rushing about My brain.  Perhaps that is something you should consider as well.

If your Owner condones what you write here, and in Her authority accepts it as a mistake, that is her right.  I would not attempt to control a situation where I have none.  (We won't discuss how I would be seeing it differently.)  At the same time, if you come here and insinuate that all of us here answered your post in some thinly veiled attempt at judging you, I will absolutely say that you are incorrect.

Quite frankly, if you feel people have a poor opinion of you around here, you absolutely have contributed to that.  Some posts have been changed or edited from the originals that you wrote and some of us are aware of it.  If an incorrect view of you has been presented, I have every hope that is based on poor assumptions, for your Owner's sake.


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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/4/2010 5:17:17 PM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

Ya know what? If irritating a small handful of people on a forum is the great human flaw this man has, yeah...I'm pretty damn ok with that.

...

Together we'll be the best that we can for each other and that's all that really matters. Sarky comments? Who cares?

I can't help but wonder if you would have that same attitude when it's you he's posting about somewhere down the line.

~stef

< Message edited by stef -- 1/4/2010 5:18:58 PM >

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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/4/2010 6:31:43 PM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		I happen to know a few of them...so yeah.

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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/4/2010 8:18:38 PM   
SthrnCom4t


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ORIGINAL: Underumam

Well??????  *grin*


So, my first impression/translation of this post was, "Are there any Dommes here who meet *my* definition of 'serious'?"

Then I read the whole 3 pages, and it seems more like an explosion/splatter of NRE, with a few jabs at a recent previous partner.

Really?

As with others whose posts I've repeatedly found to be a waste of my time, I just have to extol the virtues of the Hide and Delete buttons. 


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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/4/2010 8:49:00 PM   
seekingOwnertoo


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You choice of drink is wonderful ... and You are right ... this post is a waste ....ROFL ... sounds more like a former lovers quarrel ...

Have a wonderful evening ...

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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/4/2010 8:54:05 PM   
DrkJourney


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ORIGINAL: Underumam

Well??????  *grin*


hope it's not to late for

oh, and I'm made of cubic zirconia myself, so I guess it depends on what you mean by fake

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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/4/2010 8:57:56 PM   
DrkJourney


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ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Ask clip.

Fukkin A LP!
and
I say
ask:
sub2use2
fedx
sirmalat
littlesubby
septum
2serve4life
mslut4u
torsub4u

 
GM
 
 
 


Now I'm impressed GM...one of the names on your list jerked me around for years...can't believe he finally got serious....cheers!....lol

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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/4/2010 10:52:30 PM   
ThatDamnedPanda


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ORIGINAL: stef

quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

Ya know what? If irritating a small handful of people on a forum is the great human flaw this man has, yeah...I'm pretty damn ok with that.

...

Together we'll be the best that we can for each other and that's all that really matters. Sarky comments? Who cares?

I can't help but wonder if you would have that same attitude when it's you he's posting about somewhere down the line.

~stef


No shit. That's exactly what I've been thinking all day. You can tell a lot about a prospective partner by the way he treats an ex. I've seen a lot of peculiar things on this site, but this has to be the tackiest and most utterly trashy thing I've ever seen here. And I would have lived just as long and died just as happy if I never had. How very sad and disappointing.


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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/5/2010 4:51:32 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		That's ok - now that I know that's who he's with ... they most likely deserve each other. I sincerely hope that they treat each other better than they have treated others in the past.

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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/5/2010 7:19:19 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Like my grandmother used to say........water seeks it's own level.

Cheesy as it sounds, it has proven true more often than not.


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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/5/2010 8:21:21 AM   
Andalusite


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ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda
No shit. That's exactly what I've been thinking all day. You can tell a lot about a prospective partner by the way he treats an ex. I've seen a lot of peculiar things on this site, but this has to be the tackiest and most utterly trashy thing I've ever seen here.

I agree. Back when I was looking, I ruled out people who trash-talked all of their exes, blamed everything on them, or revealed confidences right away. I think that it's a sign of poor character to do so.

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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/5/2010 8:30:41 AM   
MsDDom


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ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf

Bantering can be fun or humerous, as long as everyone knows that is all it is. I believe the OP was just trying to have some good natured bantering with the dominant women. I have been tempted at times to be a smart ass myself, but do not have the nerve. If I did, it would be the thought of perhaps meeting some of the Domme's who responded, at an event somewhere, sometime, and have to pay for it, in some form of discipline or service that pleased her/them. At least get to kneel before them.


I would not have my sub/slave on here "bantering"...that's just me.
Often, bantering reflects badly on that person...and if owned/collared, on the dominant as well.  Just my personal opinion...


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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/5/2010 12:36:18 PM   
GYPSYMAMBO


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Status: offline 		[quote]ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Like my grandmother used to say........water seeks it's own level.

Cheesy as it sounds, it has proven true more often than not.

[/quote]
and my GRAN said
"Shit rises to the surface"
 and
"He shit in his own nest"
 
GM

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RE: ARE THERE ANY SERIOUS DOMMES HERE? - 1/5/2010 6:21:08 PM   
LdyyR


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ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda

quote:

ORIGINAL: stef

quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

Ya know what? If irritating a small handful of people on a forum is the great human flaw this man has, yeah...I'm pretty damn ok with that.

...

Together we'll be the best that we can for each other and that's all that really matters. Sarky comments? Who cares?

I can't help but wonder if you would have that same attitude when it's you he's posting about somewhere down the line.

~stef


No shit. That's exactly what I've been thinking all day. You can tell a lot about a prospective partner by the way he treats an ex. I've seen a lot of peculiar things on this site, but this has to be the tackiest and most utterly trashy thing I've ever seen here. And I would have lived just as long and died just as happy if I never had. How very sad and disappointing.



Yes, this is right at the top of the list on this forum.

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