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RE: question for the board. - 1/4/2010 5:48:14 PM   
elleX


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Status: offline 		Greetings FireKitty ,

i did read about people that came here and found their life partner .
for myself i am here for friendship only, and i met very special people who i talk with on a regular basis . They are intelligent, truthful, honnest , interested in what i have to say.
i am grateful
so YES beautiful things happen here too !!!
regards
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RE: question for the board. - 1/4/2010 6:09:49 PM   
naughtysubK


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Status: offline 		I came back to this site about 3 and a half years ago after my last relationship ended. I met a couple of men, who just weren't right for me for one reason or another. Then I found the man of my dreams. Well, actually he found me. I still feel lucky.

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RE: question for the board. - 1/4/2010 7:33:07 PM   
Fnordstrum


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Status: offline 		Well out of the years I've had a profile here, I've only talked to a few people, only a couple that became friends... But at the same time I don't tend to actively seek out other people (in general; mostly due to shyness) -- So while a couple messages from random people every few months isn't what you might call "having any luck with this site," I would say it's better than no messages ever. =)

So fnord.

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RE: question for the board. - 1/4/2010 8:52:30 PM   
SassySarijane


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From: KC Area Missouri
Status: offline 		OP, as others have said it is not so much luck as work and what you put into it. I have been on this site for over 4 years now (second profile) and in that time, through being on this site, I found my local "bdsm community" and have made some wonderful friends, met several people from here and have had  all around good and positive results.

Have I found my so called "One"? No, and I'm not looking either, but as others have said, they have found their partners through here and are happy, so it is possible. Just joining won't do it. Mass mailings won't do it either, but putting an honest effort in and networking and getting out there can. Up to you to do the work if you really want it bad enough.

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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 6:42:44 AM   
hungwabbit


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Status: offline 		None at all. I don't understand it. I signed up five minutes ago and so far, nothing. I'll give it until noon. Things seem to move slow here.

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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 6:59:32 AM   
Lucienne


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ORIGINAL: hungwabbit
I frown sternly as I type.


Awesome.

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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 7:03:15 AM   
Jeffff


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quote:

ORIGINAL: hungwabbit

None at all. I don't understand it. I signed up five minutes ago and so far, nothing. I'll give it until noon. Things seem to move slow here.



5 minutes? Thats outrageous.

I would advise you to hang in there. Give it at least another 10. These girls can be picky


Jeff

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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 7:11:49 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		OP, I've met my current service sub here.  I've had play sessions with a couple of ladies I met here, and made some very good friends as well.

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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 10:41:10 AM   
wisdomtogive


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quote:

ORIGINAL: hungwabbit

None at all. I don't understand it. I signed up five minutes ago and so far, nothing. I'll give it until noon. Things seem to move slow here.


Awwwwwwwwww thank you for the chuckle:)..

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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 10:45:05 AM   
sweetsub1957


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FireKitty1986

is anyone having any luck on this site?

Absolutely!!  I met my Sir and became owned & collared through this site. 

He passed away & now I'm hoping to be so lucky again. 
edited to add....
I have also met some really cool friends. 

< Message edited by sweetsub1957 -- 1/5/2010 10:46:31 AM >

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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 10:45:24 AM   
wisdomtogive


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Status: offline 		Hi OP
I am a firm believer in co-creating my reality, so luck has nothing to do with it. 2nd Sir was from CM and my present Sir i met in an AOL chat room 2 and half years ago. He gave me a list of links on BDSM and suggested i start reading the message boards. Best advice that I got back then. I have discovered there are all types of people here, and glad that some are my friends. Ironically the Sir who told me about these boards is my my Sir now, and he has reopen his cm account.

CM is what you make it, seriously it comes back to you. For me it has been a great experience.

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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 10:55:29 AM   
nephandi


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From: Cold and magickal Norway in a town near Bergen!
Status: offline 		Greetings

I was already with someone when I joined this site and I am still with him. But I have learned allot from this site and I have gotten new friends so I say I have been lucky with it.

I wish you well


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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 11:12:20 AM   
WinsomeDefiance


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss
osf, you silly goose!  There are submissive women all around, responding to your threads.  You just aren't inspiring any of them to submit to you!!!  That is all.

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
you silly goose i probably wouldn't want them
and Miss Cillie Goos is the name of my domme so calling me cillie is a compliment


Is that the reason for your monicker change from cillydom?  Did your goose get to keep the name cilly in the settlement?

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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 11:50:51 AM   
MissJennMB


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sandor6

No, nothing. The women here just want to soothe their egos with a lot of mail that they never answer.


Wow, yeah.  Way to lump all women together.  You're right.  Thats definitely why I am here.  All the men are here for totally altruistic reasons and we are just using you to soothe our battered egos.  *rolls eyes*

Miss Jenn

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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 12:05:47 PM   
spankme530


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Joined: 4/20/2006
Status: offline 		Joined some time back, but had a Master at that time.

Am now searching for a new Master, and have had some promising contacts. I'm hopeful...

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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 12:36:37 PM   
sunshinemiss


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nephandi

Greetings

I was already with someone when I joined this site and I am still with him. But I have learned allot from this site and I have gotten new friends so I say I have been lucky with it.

I wish you well



Nice to see you posting again Nephandi!  Best to Aswad!


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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 1:34:40 PM   
breatheasone


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

quote:

ORIGINAL: breatheasone

Yes, i would say so. i met my Master on here 2 and a half years ago. We are still very happy, and will be for a long time i suspect.



Not likely... I have it on good authority the "Time" clause in your "BDSM Contract" stipulates only FIVE YEARS; so ya better hump up a storm over the next two and half years before your trade-in date!!!  <runs>



.....Yes, i suppose a lot of things could be over in the next couple of years..... *scratches head unsure*


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RE: question for the board. - 1/5/2010 10:26:04 PM   
AlexandraLynch


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Status: offline 		Absolutely. I'll give the guys hope: I've had several good play dates through here, and found one boy and will know on the 15th if I found a second. (grin) My third I knew already and did a "OMG you're into this TOO?!" moment with at a local munch.  (Sorry, three subs and a husband is my limit, guys.) So it's absolutely possible to meet women. Just don't be an asshole, and you'll be ten miles ahead of the majority. 

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RE: question for the board. - 1/8/2010 7:26:10 PM   
breatheasone


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AlexandraLynch

Absolutely. I'll give the guys hope: I've had several good play dates through here, and found one boy and will know on the 15th if I found a second. (grin) My third I knew already and did a "OMG you're into this TOO?!" moment with at a local munch.  (Sorry, three subs and a husband is my limit, guys.) So it's absolutely possible to meet women. Just don't be an asshole, and you'll be ten miles ahead of the majority. 

i wish you the best, and hope it works out for you and yours on the 15th!


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RE: question for the board. - 1/8/2010 7:33:17 PM   
osf


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Status: offline 		i seem to have found my life partner in a box, she was the cutest goose of the 3

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