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LadyPact -> RE: First time in Public, tips? (Washington DC) (1/6/2010 8:22:59 AM)
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You don't mention what kind of event you're attending, so My answer for you can't be very specific. It could be anything from a munch for new folks or you might be diving in head first at one of Master Taino's retreats. LOL.
Wherever you are going, ask the organizers about things such as attire and conduct. If it's just a munch being held at a vanilla location, such as a restaurant, you may be asked to leave your fetish wear at home. It's usually just plain good manners to keep the kink talk to a minimum when the wait staff are within earshot. They are just doing their job and aren't necessarily interested in hearing about the fantastic scene that everyone witnessed at the last play party.
If you're going to a dungeon or a play space, ask if you can have a copy of the dungeon rules in advance. That will tell you what is and isn't acceptable within parameters. There are some pretty common rules that are somewhat universal, such as don't interrupt anyone's scene, take any issues that you have to the DM (dungeon monitor), and so on. Be familiar with them before you go. Some places have certain protocols in place for certain events. It will help you to know what is and isn't acceptable. The best person to ask about this is whoever is organizing the event.
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