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sweetnessforsir -> RE: What did you let go of? (3/22/2006 6:18:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RiotGirl Well, i let go of hiding myself. i finally opened up and let some one in. Sounds retarded i'm sure, but it is nice. This doesn't sound retarded to me at all . . . just familiar. Kind of scarey, isn't it? The whole letting someone in? s.

rrivrsong -> RE: What did you let go of? (3/23/2006 5:37:50 PM)
I had a different kind of letting go....but still it is what it is. I let go of the idea that being in a bdsm relationship was the only way I would ever be happy. i'm mentioning it, because for me that was a huge eye-opener, and has taken 10 years [give or take] to embrace. I'm glad for all who are finding their joy, and glad for me for finding mine also. :) -i meant to reply to the thread in general, not to a specific post - sorry i think i hit the wrong button!

CERCKL -> RE: What did you let go of? (3/23/2006 6:25:01 PM)
Let go? You mean I'm supposed to let her do things for me??? LOL. I was at her apartment the other day and playing with My empty coffee cup and she asked if I wanted more coffee, I said 'yes' and started to get up to get it, she took My cup and brought it back to Me and apologized there was only a partial cup (her family was over) and should she make another pot...the aspects of D/s I have always focused on are more of the psychological, spiritual between Me and her...with this girl, I'm learning part of that dynamic is being served also...I too was independent at a young age and am used to taking care of Myself...and appreciating the fact that she derives pleasurte from serving... Part of My inexperience with this is as stated, recognizing traitts of being Dominant that were usually pointed out as 'faults' and realizing they aren't...I have helped her grow a little in the short period of time together and she is awakening Me to much also... C

CERCKL -> RE: What did you let go of? (3/23/2006 6:27:08 PM)
IronBear, good to see you again, like the new photograph, very distinguished looking... C

KatyLied -> RE: What did you let go of? (3/23/2006 6:28:09 PM)
I'm still letting go. And I'm wondering what I will be asked to let go of next.

DragonNphoenix -> RE: What did you let go of? (3/23/2006 9:29:44 PM)
I had to give up control of my kitchen. I am very anal retentive when it comes to my kitchen. But, I had to release that control. Very difficult thing to do. Phoenix

SUBSEEKER007 -> RE: What did you let go of? (8/13/2006 11:11:40 PM)
time to update this sweetie

barbiealto -> RE: What did you let go of? (8/14/2006 9:24:18 AM)
I too am a fiercely independent person and I know exactly what you mean. I am having a really hard time learning to give my sub things to do and allowing him to do things for me. It was just so instilled in me as a child to depend on no one but yourself that its a struggle. I do have him opening doors for me, sliding in my chair in a restaurant, warming up the car, running errands for me etc..so Im working on it. [:D] ~Lashra I too have difficulty allowing myself to order my sub around.... thats my sub background I suppose( see profile) BUT I am getting there and his face is a picture when I let him do things for me..... opening doors, pulling the chair out, dressing me, running my bath..... all things that come naturally to do for ones self! Barbs

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