joether
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Joined: 7/24/2005 Status: offline
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Being a submissive, is not like being a bottom. A bottom is someone that allows a Top, to do things with them. Like spank, whip, tie up, and even paint a house (dont laugh, I heard it done once). A submissive is generally someone who is more passionate about submission to a Dominant (or in this case, a Fem Dom, or simply, Domme). Submissives learn of a sensation called 'subspace'. I've heard Dommes have Domme-space, but I can't confirm that, being a submissive. You might try studying the subject of BDSM alittle more. Fortunately, there exists a huge collection of online material to study on. If you can find a munch in your area (you'll understand the BDSM-lingo with time), that can provide an excellent place to learn more on D/s or bondage. Or just simply ask on this forum. The lifestylers might even give you web addresses on things to help you understand concepts.
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