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RiotGirl -> RE: Vanilla Issues After D/s is appears (3/22/2006 10:22:59 PM)
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Got a question for you chicken, You are collared to a Dom who does have disabilities.. he cant get about much without a stick or stand for long periods of time and has short-term memory loss, but yet will and does put him self out and into a shit load of pain to make sure you are ok even to the point where he places your overall welfare before his own. He does expect you to be his PA and remind him of things he has forgotten to do. Could you live with that or from your view point is there too much contradiction between his mastery and the things he can’t do or the way he prioritizes things??
First Mr IB - theres a difference in what i stated and what you stated. What i stated was a lack of control due to irresponsiblity. What you stated was lack of ability due to disability. One is phsyical (yours) and one mental (mine) What you stated, i could live with. Except for the part where he placed my welfare over his and put himself in pain. Neither of those are things i would be able to say "hey thats okay" On top of that in your scenario he understands his short comings, forgetfulness, and says "hey can you help me". There's a MAJOR difference in saying "hey can you help me" then saying "its not important - i could careless"
i hope i'm explaining well. Its not about what he "cant" do. Its about what he "wont" do. Like its one thing to forget to pay a bill and its another thing to know he has to pay a bill and not do it.
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