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boundinside -> venting (1/7/2010 5:33:52 PM)

i have been going through a lot these last few weeks, since 12-22-09 to be exact.  Sometimes these hardships get the best of me.  The simple fact is i lost my job for helping the entire work place.  i am unsure if this is even in the correct category, i'm sure i will soon be corrected if it's not.  i have been so lost and confused in this completely ambiguous lifestyle and world.  i have one person that i can tell everything to regarding this lifestyle or not.  Everyone else is either too strung up in their own lives to care or simpy judge. 

This is possibly the best method i have when it comes to venting, writing, and simply expressing my overwhelming thoughts.  No one judges, for the most part at least.  No one gives you unnecessary thoughts.  it's nice.  Thank you.  Sorry, i am just going through some times and it's nice to write to others.  Take care




LadyPact -> RE: venting (1/7/2010 5:40:01 PM)

I'd agree with you that this isn't the right forum.  I tend to take general BDSM discussion to have something to do with...... well...... BDSM.  There is an off topic forum that might be more suited for posts like this.




boundinside -> RE: venting (1/7/2010 5:49:17 PM)

i do in fact know of the "off topic" forums.  It simply was that when these thoughts came about i happened to be in this section, no clue as to why i did not redirect myself, but it is what it is now




LadyPact -> RE: venting (1/7/2010 6:04:30 PM)

No worries.  The mods around here are pretty good about moving threads that are not about BDSM to the appropriate forum.




Ashcroft -> RE: venting (1/7/2010 6:31:59 PM)

I know the feeling, man. I've been unemployed for almost a year and other chaos and a lot happens it's always nice to be able to have a place where one can vent over their frustrations without being judged or preached to. Hope things get better for you soon.




boundinside -> RE: venting (1/7/2010 7:01:59 PM)

Thanks Ashcroft.  The simple conceres sometimes are more important then the common one's.  i'm not sitting back though, so i should be able to find something with the right amount of determination.  Thanks again.




antipode -> RE: venting (1/7/2010 7:19:33 PM)

quote:

i am unsure if this is even in the correct category


How'd you lose your job?




boundinside -> RE: venting (1/7/2010 8:41:10 PM)

antipod,

There was an issue of favoritism going on in the warehouse and i had brought it to my bosses attention on a handful of occassions but nothing was resolved.  It was between him and two other girls who were moving up in the wrong way.  They could get away with murder and management wouldn't say anything.  i decided to go to the higher ups, i was actually cool with them, and they offered little help.  So me, being tired of hearing the same complaints from every employee, attempted to bring the issue up to my boss yet again.  Well he wasn't having it and i believe he had found out that i went above his authority as well.  While comfronting him for the countless time he said towards the end of the conversation, "If you don't like it then quit."  So i knew it was only a matter of time, i just didn't think it would be so soon.  i continued working, as i always did, and he came up to me about an hour later (after pulling his strings i suppose) and told me the bad news. 

It's sad the way things ended really.  i must admit, i was completely humble to him and the job all the way....except at the end.  i went off on him, i lost it.  Yelling beyond believe, insulting and degrading his management skill...or lack there of.  He recently got served with devorce papers by his wife of 32 years and i had, at one point in the arguement, said that, "This is why your wife is leaving you!"  Not pretty, needless to say.  i attempted to talk to the account to see what i can do but all he did was hand me my last check.  The owners barely even knew my name, and the next day when i went back to talk to a higher up i was pretty much reassured that i couldn't get my position back.  The higher up told me, "How can i try to look out for others/the warehouse when i can't even hold my own job?"  That right there taught me a lesson.  No one, no matter how high or how low, is invulnerable to the wrath of the work force and business. 

That's how i got laid off.  No document, reasoning, justification, or nothing stating a reason as to why i was no longer able to work for them.  The good news, i can get unemployment for a while...but why would i sit around and do nothing.  So i am planning on going to a school in march to become an EMT.  Life hits you in funny ways that's for sure.




pahunkboy -> RE: venting (1/8/2010 3:21:08 AM)

Ok- today is a brand new day.

Resolve to let go all ALL your negative energy.

Then plot a job search.

view yourself is offering a service.    There is no going back.  personality conflicts happen.

to anyone who IS working- be warned that little comments, the "do I have to"  attitude  can be the deciding factor on firing.

If you exhude negative energy you will never overcome this.




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