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RealSub58 -> RE: The reason (1/9/2010 1:22:40 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Knighthunter862
Does a submissive or slave get what they need thru there submission or thru there Dom phraising and or rewarding them for thereact of submission?
This is a deep question, not to be lightly answered.
A sub or slave must ask themselves many questions before they submit, unless they are just doing the bottom thing -- totally different in my mind.
A sub or slave must ask themselves: what do I want, what do I need, what are my expectations and why do I choose this specific person to sumbit too.
I believe than answers to those questions will answer the motive and purpose behind submission.
The reason could lie in some selfish motive for self worth or some sort of gain they need to feel accomplishment.
The reason could be as selfless as fullfilling the pleasure of another.
When I am called to serve my Sir, I am performing a service out of devotion and dedication, out of strength and caring.
Expecting to be rewarded only if I have pleased him well is not on my agenda, but if it happens then my appreciation for him grows.
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