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LadyAngelika -> RE: pet (1/9/2010 10:09:30 PM)
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ORIGINAL: sasscat84
ok, elaboration: if a woman tells you she wants you to be her pet, what does that entail actually? i do realize that it is all up for interpretation, however, i would appreciate an array of potential definitions. what does that term mean to "you" specifically?
Well, the bottom line is that it that you need to be able to ask *her* what she means by pet. If she can't explain that to you, then this is a warning sign that she might not know what she wants or that she isn't so good at communication. I have never expected my submissives to be mind readers.
Now if you want to have a general idea of what a pet might be, think about what a real pet really is. My cat provides companionship, he's cuddly, he's dependant on me, I pet him, I groom him, I take care of him, sometimes he bites or scratches, he rarely listens to me unless I take a stern tone and then he just scampers. On the flip side, a dog is a little less independant than a cat and is more obedient and you can train it.
I have a feeling when people say pet, they are thinking more along the lines of an obedient pet like a dog, but you never know until you ask her, right?
Personally, thought I like the occasional puppy innuendos, I'm not really into having a pet.
- LA
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