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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:09:29 AM   
lusciouslips19


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requiring closer emotional support taking the time to really listen and understand, most anything in other relationships but you have to be more diligent in it

it's not a difference in kind as much as a greater degree of attentiveness, but mostly you gotta listen and accept what you hear non critically

i'm of the opinion you may demean her but never her thinking, or she will clam up

and never take what she says personaly


How will you hear a submissive's opinion non critically, when you dont even listen to us?

You are contradicting yourself in what you have said you wanted. I thought you wanted someone to demean?

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:09:40 AM   
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But it's kinda fun pointing it out!
(over and over...) *eg*



walking through the twists and turns of a maze can be fun... It' particular fun when one pushes the buttons.. he so damn predictable though.... if only he was not so predictable it would be more fun.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:11:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		okay i just read this whole thread.. and now my head hurts.. dammit and i had  a good response too.. 

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:13:11 AM   
osf


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ow will you hear a submissive's opinion non critically, when you dont even listen to us


and listening to you will do me what?

when you speak to the purpose of the thread i listen

but all this bullshit only makes me laugh

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:15:32 AM   
osf


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Status: offline 		what i see here is a bunch of people that get together and so they have a partner for some kinky sex and to be seen in dungeons so they can be noticed and respected in the " COMMUNITY"

ok if that's you thing more power to you

i'll tread my own path

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:15:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

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Again,please be careful.


i didn't get to be this old being careless


Thank you for bringing that up.  Why is CillyDom 63, but Oaf is 55 now, but a few days ago he was 65?  Have we stumbled upon the fountain of youth?




I think it has something to do with geese. You know they mate for life, right? (or is that swans?? I am not down on my animal lore) So perhaps such a close alliance with a goose makes one get younger.



I don't know, but I hear some birds live to be very very old.  Maybe he's counting his age in bird years?
He might be onto something. 

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:17:35 AM   
KnightofMists


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i don't fucking believe this, lolololol



mmmmmm you don't even believe what you say?!!! wow... and you surprized that some don't believe anything you have to say!

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:19:17 AM   
KnightofMists


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He might be onto something. 



maybe it's "ON" something... or at the least should be "ON" something!

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:19:40 AM   
osf


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mmmmmm you don't even believe what you say?!!! wow... and you surprized that some don't believe anything you have to say!


actually some do but they contact me in cmail to say so

which i don't mind

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:21:49 AM   
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what i see here is a bunch of people that get together and so they have a partner for some kinky sex and to be seen in dungeons so they can be noticed and respected in the " COMMUNITY"

ok if that's you thing more power to you

i'll tread my own path


Yup... with a dominant goose! lol

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:24:26 AM   
osf


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Yup... with a dominant goose! lol


HEY!!!!!!! geese are natural dominants, not like some here, lolololol

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:25:23 AM   
PamperPrincess


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Status: offline 		Some people cannot be fulfilled sexually unless they are with a submissive/dom. Would you rather a man (or woman) get into a relationship that they will either be unable to continue with or be strained in? Starting something with someone you might stray from is worse then having a high maintenance girl.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:25:24 AM   
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i mean take what she says personally to the point your not able to deal with it objectively

and she may not even like your ass all the time for what she may be required to do for you

you have to deal with that aftermath too


Again, all of these issues are part and parcel of -any- relationship, regardless of whether one is neutral, dominant, or submissive, and regardless of whether one's companion is neutral, dominant, or submissive.

Heck, there are times in -any- relationship when things will happen that will cause individuals to dislike hir companions. Part of being in a healthy relationship is being able to resolve these issues and come out the other end as a healthy, happy household.

You insist on making this about submissive individuals being too "high maintenance", but it sounds more like what you're objecting to is having to be a committed, dedicated member of a partnership.

Calla




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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:27:23 AM   
osf


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Heck, there are times in -any- relationship when things will happen that will cause individuals to dislike hir companions. Part of being in a healthy relationship is being able to resolve these issues and come out the other end as a healthy, happy household.


but was she made to fuck someone she didn't really want to?

i think that would be a difference

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:27:24 AM   
lusciouslips19


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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:27:37 AM   
Lockit


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Yup... with a dominant goose! lol


HEY!!!!!!! geese are natural dominants, not like some here, lolololol


Is that a confession? lol

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:30:38 AM   
osf


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An insecure control freak, who is domineering is not what makes a dominant.


i use dominant as a self identifier here, i dont dwell on it any more than i dwell on being male all day long

if you dont see me that way, well so what lololol

and i dont wear domly shoes to prove something

and the goose appreciates me, or is it the grapes

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:31:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx


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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance
Thank you for bringing that up.  Why is CillyDom 63, but Oaf is 55 now, but a few days ago he was 65?  Have we stumbled upon the fountain of youth?




Nice.



What's up with this?!!


*And then there was silence as the wizard of osf slipped further behind his curtain.*





it's just a mishap i'll change it back when its convenient


Mishap:  An unfortunate accident.  Bad luck.  Misfortune.

So you changed it by accident?  Or did it mysteriously get changed by itself due to bad luck (darn computer glitches)?  Or did you just have the misfortune of getting busted trying to deceive?

In what way was it a "mishap", since it took an intentional act to change it?


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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:31:32 AM   
KnightofMists


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Heck, there are times in -any- relationship when things will happen that will cause individuals to dislike hir companions. Part of being in a healthy relationship is being able to resolve these issues and come out the other end as a healthy, happy household.


but was she made to fuck someone she didn't really want to?

i think that would be a difference


Not for a healthy relationship.... I have had Alandra fuck more than a few individuals that she didn't really want to...

interestedly... we haven't had any negative issues as result of it either... mmmmm I wonder why that is.

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RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/12/2010 11:33:33 AM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: osf

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Heck, there are times in -any- relationship when things will happen that will cause individuals to dislike hir companions. Part of being in a healthy relationship is being able to resolve these issues and come out the other end as a healthy, happy household.


but was she made to fuck someone she didn't really want to?

i think that would be a difference


Not for a healthy relationship.... I have had Alandra fuck more than a few individuals that she didn't really want to...

interestedly... we haven't had any negative issues as result of it either... mmmmm I wonder why that is.


i don't know your relationship so i cant comment on that

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