calamitysandra -> RE: Too Far? (1/14/2010 5:56:31 AM)
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote:
ORIGINAL: domiguy Here is the dealio. When you iz white and you see white folk acting all hillbilly and shit, what you see is a part of yourself. You get embarassed by their actions... I believe the term in German is called "Schadenfreude." Where you are embarrassed by the actions of another. I was dating a woman that called it "frempsing." So me and mine have adopted that term. Actually Schadenfreude (and I love the word) means the delight that one takes in the misfortune of others. The word Domi was looking for is fremdschämen. I believe that it is entirely dependent upon the situation what is too far. I know that I have made some inappropriate jokes, and did laugh about a good deal more. As many have already pointed out, it is a kind of coping mechanism. If you don't laugh you cry. In the context of the thread you are referring to, I feel it was too far. And that is completely my problem to deal with. As it is the problems of the joksters to deal with the responses they got. That is the danger of risking such jokes. What in my opinion really got the majority of the posters on that thread to rally and cry out though, was the feeling of deliberate riling that formed when, instead of stopping after the first jokes got unfavourable responses, the jokes kept coming. It felt like a testing of boundaries, a attempt to push the envelope still a bit more, see how angry people would get. Maybe a bit of wallowing in the "bad girl/boy" imagery. At least I felt, that a thread honoring a person like Miep Gies was the wrong thread for behaviour like this.
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