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Control - 1/12/2010 2:13:28 PM   
cuckolded2006


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Status: offline 		i have two questions, 1) why is it so hard to find someone who wants to control another's sex life completely online.  2) why do many people think Ds or SM is only about sex?
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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 2:25:49 PM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: cuckolded2006

i have two questions, 1) why is it so hard to find someone who wants to control another's sex life completely online.

Why would it be any easier online than offline?

quote:

2) why do many people think Ds or SM is only about sex?

Because for many people, it is.  Diff'rent strokes and all that.

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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 2:32:31 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: cuckolded2006

i have two questions, 1) why is it so hard to find someone who wants to control another's sex life completely online.  2) why do many people think Ds or SM is only about sex?


Is it just me and my brandspankingnewheadache, or is the above something of an oxymoron?


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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 2:33:59 PM   
hlen5


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ORIGINAL: stef

quote:

ORIGINAL: cuckolded2006

i have two questions, 1) why is it so hard to find someone who wants to control another's sex life completely online.

Why would it be any easier online than offline?

quote:

2) why do many people think Ds or SM is only about sex?

Because for many people, it is.  Diff'rent strokes and all that.

~stef


A complete and succinct thread in two posts!! Well done!

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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 2:35:29 PM   
hlen5


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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 2:50:44 PM   
Jeffff


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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 2:56:37 PM   
heartcream


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i have two questions, 1) why is it so hard to find someone who wants to control another's sex life completely online.  2) why do many people think Ds or SM is only about sex?


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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 2:58:37 PM   
Lockit


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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 3:01:12 PM   
Jeffff


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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 3:05:49 PM   
Wolf2Bear


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ORIGINAL: cuckolded2006

i have two questions, 1) why is it so hard to find someone who wants to control another's sex life completely online.  2) why do many people think Ds or SM is only about sex?


Plain and simple:

1) Most of us are mature enough to know that online control of another's sex life is high ineffective.

2) For many people they just want and need the D/s and/or the SM to apply to the sexual aspect of their relationships. It's whatever floats your boat.


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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 3:06:00 PM   
heartcream


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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 3:11:34 PM   
Jeffff


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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 3:16:41 PM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Ya gotta lover her.....Canadian and all.


Jeff


I lover your post

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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 3:18:12 PM   
Jeffff


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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 3:30:18 PM   
domiguy


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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 3:33:46 PM   
heartcream


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Ya gotta lover her.....Canadian and all.


Jeff


I lover your post


I missed that! I want video of Jefff gotta lovering me (or do I?) and Aileen lovering his post!

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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 3:33:52 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		Princess Caroline was smokin' hot, back in the day. She rejected my advances. I went to see a hoodoo woman about cursing her. 

She got the wrong Ranier.

I got a refund.

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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 3:42:38 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Jefff has the ability to lover like no other man I have ever met.  We lover our hoppy beer.

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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 3:46:53 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		I am indeed a great loverer.

Not to derail..... but I found a place right down the street from me that serves  3 FLoyds, on TAP!

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm hoppy beer


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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 4:00:43 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Ooooooh, I am so hoppy for you...Jeffff,  you should be aware that this tasty lil' gem was released on Monday....It's da bomb.

One of my favorite hoppy beers ever concocted.

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