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RE: Is anyone required - 1/15/2010 6:47:53 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		No.  I have places to go and things to do.  If I didn't have a decent night's rest I couldn't do the things that need done.  Then we'd bother suffer the consequences of undone tasks and fading health.  

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/15/2010 8:17:03 PM   
FetishRose


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Status: offline 		It's one of those things that, for me, while sexy in practice, and perhaps for short naps, would REALLY grate on me after awhile. I like being the baby spoon, with his strong, warm masculine frame wrapped around mine, or else being cradled to his chest when he's on his back. I don't even like it when he (rarely), rolls away from me. I usually end up scooting back closer and wrapping about him before going back to sleep.

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/15/2010 8:19:27 PM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		I love sleeping on thne floor. Adore it. It is so sexy and Masterful.

uh... except for the lack of actual sleep, the sore back in the morning, the pain of getting up off the floor, and not getting to cuddle your one and only.

so, for an every now and then treat, I love it. If I didn't have bed privaledges, I might feel differantly.

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/15/2010 9:19:10 PM   
Delphinus


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ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned

to sleep on the floor either bound or not? If so what are your feelings on it? Thanks.


Every now and then. I love it.

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/15/2010 10:03:33 PM   
hisdarlinsweetie


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Status: offline 		Sir always holds me while we talk and eventually drift off, then rolls to His side so I press up against Him, entangling my legs with His.  So, no...I'm never made to sleep on the floor.  Sometimes He chains me to the bed.  He installed eye hooks on my side, so my right wrist and ankle can be chained.  He sometimes does it for His pleasure...sometimes (if I've been distant mentally and emotionally) it's to remind me that I belong to Him.  There's something very comforting about feeling the cold chain pressing against me.  

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/16/2010 1:22:11 AM   
ForeverOwned


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Status: offline 		i have enjoyed reading all the reponses. Thank you all very much!

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/16/2010 8:38:15 AM   
Aynne88


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Not yet but I know it's in the near future. I'm not looking forward to it since I do enjoy sleeping next to him.

littlewonder, may I ask why you know it is in the near future? Is it a punishment, or a change in a dynamic, or something temporary? If you don't want to answer, totally understand, it just struck me as curious. We went to a golf tournament a few months ago and it was a 5 night event and on the 3rd night I drank too much and I was a bitch and he didn't let me sleep with him, but he woke up in the middle of the night and brought me into his bed, and held me while I cried. It was horrible to feel so isolated I guess is the word. I don't ever want to do anything to not be in his bed again.

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/16/2010 9:07:37 AM   
littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: Aynne88


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Not yet but I know it's in the near future. I'm not looking forward to it since I do enjoy sleeping next to him.

littlewonder, may I ask why you know it is in the near future? Is it a punishment, or a change in a dynamic, or something temporary? If you don't want to answer, totally understand, it just struck me as curious. We went to a golf tournament a few months ago and it was a 5 night event and on the 3rd night I drank too much and I was a bitch and he didn't let me sleep with him, but he woke up in the middle of the night and brought me into his bed, and held me while I cried. It was horrible to feel so isolated I guess is the word. I don't ever want to do anything to not be in his bed again.


I know it's coming in the near future because he told me it is. It is to remind me of his slave's place. Yes I know that he cares for me very much but he also likes to remind me every so often that I am still his slave and if he wants me to sleep on the floor then that is his choice and it's not about me..it's about him.

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/16/2010 12:06:58 PM   
breatheasone


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Not yet but I know it's in the near future. I'm not looking forward to it since I do enjoy sleeping next to him.

littlewonder, may I ask why you know it is in the near future? Is it a punishment, or a change in a dynamic, or something temporary? If you don't want to answer, totally understand, it just struck me as curious. We went to a golf tournament a few months ago and it was a 5 night event and on the 3rd night I drank too much and I was a bitch and he didn't let me sleep with him, but he woke up in the middle of the night and brought me into his bed, and held me while I cried. It was horrible to feel so isolated I guess is the word. I don't ever want to do anything to not be in his bed again.


I know it's coming in the near future because he told me it is. It is to remind me of his slave's place. Yes I know that he cares for me very much but he also likes to remind me every so often that I am still his slave and if he wants me to sleep on the floor then that is his choice and it's not about me..it's about him.

Won't it be about you, when you can't function because of soreness, and lack of sleep? What provisions has your master made to deal with the physical consequenses of you having to sleep on the floor? i realize in a perfect M/s world this would be different, but we are real people with real aches, and pains, and needs.


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RE: Is anyone required - 1/16/2010 12:29:10 PM   
vixenkneels


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Status: offline 		I never know from one night to the next where I'll be sleeping...in the bed, on the floor or in my cage. I also never know if I will be bound or chained. My feelings...I'm His slave I can have all the "feelings" I want, but ultimately I please Him, not myself.


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RE: Is anyone required - 1/16/2010 12:34:26 PM   
sexisubi


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Status: offline 		ive only done it once and usually its a punishment thing. punishment, even though giving me a sense of redemtion, is never fun and mostly makes me toss and turn and only hope i have a moment to beg for forgiveness so i can sleep comfortably with them.

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/16/2010 3:47:55 PM   
Wolf2Bear


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ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned

to sleep on the floor either bound or not? If so what are your feelings on it? Thanks.


No, never have and never will. I will not be chained down at night like an animal.


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Take the pain
Take the pleasure
I'm the master of both
Close your eyes, not your mind
Let me into your soul
I'm gonna work it 'til your totally blown

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/16/2010 4:03:32 PM   
littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Not yet but I know it's in the near future. I'm not looking forward to it since I do enjoy sleeping next to him.

littlewonder, may I ask why you know it is in the near future? Is it a punishment, or a change in a dynamic, or something temporary? If you don't want to answer, totally understand, it just struck me as curious. We went to a golf tournament a few months ago and it was a 5 night event and on the 3rd night I drank too much and I was a bitch and he didn't let me sleep with him, but he woke up in the middle of the night and brought me into his bed, and held me while I cried. It was horrible to feel so isolated I guess is the word. I don't ever want to do anything to not be in his bed again.


I know it's coming in the near future because he told me it is. It is to remind me of his slave's place. Yes I know that he cares for me very much but he also likes to remind me every so often that I am still his slave and if he wants me to sleep on the floor then that is his choice and it's not about me..it's about him.

Won't it be about you, when you can't function because of soreness, and lack of sleep? What provisions has your master made to deal with the physical consequenses of you having to sleep on the floor? i realize in a perfect M/s world this would be different, but we are real people with real aches, and pains, and needs.



I've slept on the floor in the past in other relationships. Ya know I've never once experienced those problems that everyone else is speaking about here...soreness, not being able to function the next morning, etc...yeah..I dunno. I don't see that as being a problem. The problem is that I simply like to be near him but I also understand His view and will accept whatever He wishes and desires. Again..it's not about me.

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/16/2010 4:32:14 PM   
breatheasone


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
I've slept on the floor in the past in other relationships. Ya know I've never once experienced those problems that everyone else is speaking about here...soreness, not being able to function the next morning, etc...yeah..I dunno. I don't see that as being a problem. The problem is that I simply like to be near him but I also understand His view and will accept whatever He wishes and desires. Again..it's not about me.


Thats so good to hear! i'm glad it will be a good experience for you, and your master. Hope you are having a good weekend btw!


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RE: Is anyone required - 1/16/2010 4:34:38 PM   
Aynne88


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Not yet but I know it's in the near future. I'm not looking forward to it since I do enjoy sleeping next to him.

littlewonder, may I ask why you know it is in the near future? Is it a punishment, or a change in a dynamic, or something temporary? If you don't want to answer, totally understand, it just struck me as curious. We went to a golf tournament a few months ago and it was a 5 night event and on the 3rd night I drank too much and I was a bitch and he didn't let me sleep with him, but he woke up in the middle of the night and brought me into his bed, and held me while I cried. It was horrible to feel so isolated I guess is the word. I don't ever want to do anything to not be in his bed again.


I know it's coming in the near future because he told me it is. It is to remind me of his slave's place. Yes I know that he cares for me very much but he also likes to remind me every so often that I am still his slave and if he wants me to sleep on the floor then that is his choice and it's not about me..it's about him.



Thanks for answering littlewonder. I know that feeling. Usually my reminders are of the same sort, you are right it is about him, but it hurts, but in an odd way when He does something like that to me I try to see the love in as well, like I dwell on the fact that it is a deeper kind of love I guess and for him to reinforce what for me is the best relationship I have ever had, then  I try and take it as a reminder of his wanting to strengthen the bond.  The last time I kept him waiting for an hour, it was a legitimate reason, but nonetheless, he was rightfully upset, so I was not allowed for the rest of the week to bring him lunch at work and he knows that for me that is important and meaningful to me, he has diabetes and caring for that is one of the most important ways to show my love but he said I was not responsible enough to be on time so I was not responsible enough to prepare his food. It stung, but it worked.

You will be fine, I have read your posts for a long time, you are a strong woman. It may actually turn out to be a bonding thing like for some of the other women here have said, I hope for you it is.   


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As long as people will shed the blood of innocent creatures there can be no peace, no liberty, no harmony between people. Slaughter and justice cannot dwell together.
—Isaac Bashevis Singer, writer and Nobel laureate (1902–1991)



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RE: Is anyone required - 1/16/2010 8:33:42 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Thank you both breathesasone and Aynne88.

The longer we are together the more bonded I feel to Him even though the way it comes about isn't always how I would like it to be lol..


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RE: Is anyone required - 1/17/2010 12:49:11 AM   
AmusingUserName


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Status: offline 		He doesn't let me sleep on the floor because I have a very poor back.  That, and he loves to cuddle.

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/17/2010 8:12:14 AM   
petmonkey


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Status: offline 		Alas, the bad back trumps desires.

(but a dog bed would be super duper!)


< Message edited by petmonkey -- 1/17/2010 8:13:56 AM >

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/17/2010 8:33:08 AM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		I'm not required to...but if I wriggle too much he'll chuck me out..followed by a pillow if I'm lucky. It wouldn't upset me in any way as I know I'm a wriggler and I get a warning kick and a growl or two first. He's always fair, even if he's half asleep............lol

agirl

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RE: Is anyone required - 1/19/2010 12:36:28 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Master would never make me sleep on the floor, for 2 reasons one is he says i keep his chest earm and 2 he loved to cuddle, We usually sleep spoon fasion with him taking the outer spoon and wrapping his arms aroud my waist. It is funny i am usually a very restles sleeper, tossing ad turning waking up 1 or 2 times a night. Not with Master i says in his arms peasfully all night and get a good nights sleep. Must be that i feel so safe and secure in his arms.

Matt's littleone

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