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Level -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/15/2010 7:16:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: Level My time would lessen here if I were in a relationship, a little bit. She wouldn't be allowed to post, except to agree with me, and extoll my virtues. snickers Thanks for the warning. writes down on a piece of paper "Always bring up message board privileges with potential partners... ' Hmm. Well, I guess there could be some leeway. "I use a Bushmaster 5000 to keep that fresh-trimmed look. And Level is divine." Or, "I find extra virgin olive oil gives my salads that little something extra. And Level is the wind beneath my wings." nods flexibly

lovingpet -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/15/2010 8:07:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: w0nderasiwander quote: Depends on the relationship, I don't proclaim a relationship the moment I am in one any more because of my inability to maintain them, I can relate! It seems that the Dom I am with may still be searching; hard to say for sure. Perhaps my ability to choose and/or the integrity of a myriad who frequent CM may be in question. It is entirely possible he is maintaining and creating new contacts in order for the two of you to have some special experiences together. My partner keeps in touch with members of his munch group and local bdsm community contacts via CM and other sites. It might be a lot of fun to get the opportunity to attend a play party, munch, or other event. Just another way to look at things. lovingpet

AquaticSub -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/15/2010 10:46:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level Hmm. Well, I guess there could be some leeway. "I use a Bushmaster 5000 to keep that fresh-trimmed look. And Level is divine." Or, "I find extra virgin olive oil gives my salads that little something extra. And Level is the wind beneath my wings." nods flexibly You know... if you give me an inch, I'll take a mile. I'd start looking for STD threads. "It's always a good idea to get tested regularly. And that reminds me, have I mentioned that Level is a truly amazing man?" [:D]

QuirkyAnne -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/15/2010 10:58:06 PM)
I would change my profile in that I would remove the section about what I'm looking for in a partner and state up front that I'm currently in a monogamous relationship and not seeking anyone at this time. Other than that, I'd keep coming to the site for the message boards and the people I've met on here and chat with from time to time. I've learned a lot from this site but we never stop learning and shouldn't assume that we don't need to know more about ourselves.

AquaticSub -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/15/2010 10:59:32 PM)
Off topic - Anne you have C-Mail. [:)]

pixidustpet -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/15/2010 11:50:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: w0nderasiwander I am curious, what is your viewpoint? If in a committed relationship, have you or would you change the appearance of your profile? Do you think the frequency of your visits would change? I'm here for the forums. My profile says I'm collared. If people don't bother to read it when they troll me looking for sex, I snark them. Sir and TheEngineer both encourage me to snark those who troll me for sex. (although i'm sure that you get trolled MUCH more often, cause HUBBA HUBBA PHOTO ms aqua! AND congrats on the wedding!) kitten

allthatjaz -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 2:26:21 AM)
My profile states very clearly that I am a couple. I put pictures up of the both of us and not just me but I don't curb my profile. I probably come here a little more than I used to when I was single because I am now a domestic Goddess! and have more time but I tend to come here to keep in touch with people I know and join in forum debates.

sirsholly -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 2:32:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level My time would lessen here if I were in a relationship, a little bit. She wouldn't be allowed to post, except to agree with me, and extoll my virtues. so she would never be on line?

AquaticSub -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 3:04:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pixidustpet Sir and TheEngineer both encourage me to snark those who troll me for sex. (although i'm sure that you get trolled MUCH more often, cause HUBBA HUBBA PHOTO ms aqua! AND congrats on the wedding!) kitten The change in coloring has really helped with that actually. snickers Athough I did get one guy telling me I seemed to have some sort of a rash. At least now when I'm trolled it's actually new material! [:D] Thank you so much as well. I still can't believe it's actually over and done with. [:)]

Level -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 3:34:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: Level Hmm. Well, I guess there could be some leeway. "I use a Bushmaster 5000 to keep that fresh-trimmed look. And Level is divine." Or, "I find extra virgin olive oil gives my salads that little something extra. And Level is the wind beneath my wings." nods flexibly You know... if you give me an inch, I'll take a mile. I'd start looking for STD threads. "It's always a good idea to get tested regularly. And that reminds me, have I mentioned that Level is a truly amazing man?" [:D] Staying on that thread: "I have seen the horrible ravages of what the syph can do to a man. And my devotion to Level is total, no matter what."[:D][:D]

Level -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 3:36:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: Level My time would lessen here if I were in a relationship, a little bit. She wouldn't be allowed to post, except to agree with me, and extoll my virtues. so she would never be on line? [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m17.gif[/image]

LadyPact -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 6:10:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: w0nderasiwander I am curious, what is your viewpoint? If in a committed relationship, have you or would you change the appearance of your profile? Do you think the frequency of your visits would change? I've always listed My relationships on My profile. I'm a poly person and it's fair for people to know that right up front about Me. I'm in the main profile pic on My husband's profile as well as My sub's profile. My frequency here depends on what else is happening in life. CM is generally at least part of My wake up routine in the mornings. I use this place as more of a social networking site and forum participation than anything else.

GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 6:32:27 AM)
OP: If I am in a LTR relationship or considering someone I always post it at the head of my profile.. GM

pompeii -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 7:01:48 AM)
snark?

AquaticSub -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 9:06:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level Staying on that thread: "I have seen the horrible ravages of what the syph can do to a man. And my devotion to Level is total, no matter what."[:D][:D] I think my devotion to you just increased two-fold! [:)]

AquaticSub -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 9:07:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pompeii snark? Snark: To mock, insult, treat with scorn. A pasttime of us Internet trolls, particularly those who have frequently received with the "u belong to me now leave the loser" type of message. [:D]

Aileen1968 -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 10:02:56 AM)
I hid my proflie once I entered into this relationship. He no longer uses his original profile, but I don't think he ever deactivated it. He now uses our couples profile. We both zip on and off as time allows and we often hang together and post together from the same laptop.

Jeffff -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 10:09:39 AM)
You are protected! Jeff

Aileen1968 -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 10:21:17 AM)
Yay!

AlexandraLynch -> RE: What do most do about CM when in an LTR?? (1/16/2010 10:32:37 AM)
I read the boards regularly, but am not a top poster. Profile-wise, I regard it as a "we are now hiring" ad, and talk about what the position is and other notes. I figure if they want an idea of personality they can search on the forums or strike up a conversation with me. Right now I'm hiring for a pain slut for a play partner, so I don't need so many subtle compatibilities as I do someone who will be honest with me and show up at the parties I tell him to and call his safewords as needed. If I find him, I will take the want ad down but keep the profile for contact with others and use on the forums.

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