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RE: It does frustrate me... - 3/24/2006 5:45:51 AM

Jasmyn

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Exactly..........I rest my case. You have made it for me. For each there is their own. Do not put more words into something you don't control.

lol issues dude.

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RE: It does amaze me... - 3/24/2006 7:16:23 AM

BeachMystress

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Ya know what amazes me? Rainbows. Gorgeous sunsets. My husband's sweet nature. ProDomme do not amaze me, nor does the fact that the percentage of them on the site is high. Lifestyle-only Domme are the minority everywhere. Why shouldn't the profiles on here reflect that. Now.. unbunch your knickers and go look at the main collar me page. Notice in the group of buttons that has "add to favorites" and "block user", there is one called hide user. You click that little button and the person goes away. You don't see them in searches again. You can remove them from the hidden list by clicking on the "hidden users" link on the left (right above Admirers) and then clicking the X next to the name you wish to be in your searches again. Isn't that easier than raising your blood pressure?

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RE: It does amaze me... - 3/24/2006 7:22:31 AM

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Relax...take a deep breath...Pro Dommes are PEOPLE...sure some "may" be $$$graspers" BUT many many more are Females that derive Great Satisfaction from being PAID to kick male ass!

Many moons ago I was a subbie and had a great Friend who was a Pro Domme and She was Lifestyle oriented, Single ,2 children and guess what She fed , clothed and housed Her children by herself.

Certain people have NO time to establish a deep relationship for many reasons of their own and yet NEED to be Dominated. What else is there? Should they stay alone and unfulfilled? From reading your Profile I know you don't feel they should.

Profile says you are educated and will serve, admirable traits...I am probably wrong but I feel you are trying to attract attention...which may or may not be good in this situation. Mistresses are People each different and Uniquely Special and may not apreciate the comments.

Some Pro Dommes(I have seen it many times) after getting to know a "client" well actually accept the TRUE submissive as Their own and I would think if you are having a tough time finding a Lady to serve you could do worse than going to a Pro proving yourself by your willingness to serve ,promptness, respect for Her and her time, offering to do menial tasks AFTER the session "Ma'am, may i Please empty Your trash?", courtesy perhaps after a session or two and She feels comfortable with you and you with Her ask if She would call you if She ever needs errands run or rides.

If you do this even if She has no time or need for you and you do impress Her with your sincerity...She May just know "Someone" you would like to know.

Please allow everyone the opportunity to "float their own boat" and I wouldn't be surprised if you don't find yourself down on your knees before a Lady sooner than you think.

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RE: It does amaze me... - 3/24/2006 10:59:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

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ORIGINAL: Elegant

There are Pros and there are Faux Pros.

OMG that is too funny, say that 10 times after 3 glasses of wine!

ahem, so could you for the benefit of our audience, define a Faux Pro?

To put this in another context for ease in explaination:

Professional Accountant VS Faux Accountant

My Certified Public Accountant
The Certified Public Accountant we use for our income tax preparation has a undergraduate degree and a Master's Degree. More importantly to me he attends numerous classes and seminars to keep him up to date on the latest regulations and rules. He has a trained office staff and fabulous technological equipment. He is private and confidential. He does give discounts for friends and family but otherwise he charges a fair fee for his services. He enjoys what he does and even offers his service free to a number of charitable organizations. He is a part-time instructor at a local community college and has even visited middle schools and high schools to tell students about his career.

My Neighbor The Math Wiz
Howard is a numbers man. He is fabulous with facts and figures and even does the financial books for his own small business. His fingers race across a calculator and he does his own tax preparation as well as doing his brothers taxes. I think he even does his parent's taxes.Howard has branched out and is asking neighbors to let him do their taxes. He thinks he can get a little bit of extra money for something he is good at doing..not an expert but he can probably do the job.

I am sticking with my CPA. Howard may not know the latest tax rules and regulations, especially since our business is far different than his. Howard has a degree in something computer related and runs a internet security business..not an accounting business. Howard does not attend Continuing Education opportunities in the accounting field.

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RE: It does amaze me... - 3/24/2006 11:41:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress

Ya know what amazes me? Rainbows. Gorgeous sunsets. My husband's sweet nature. ProDomme do not amaze me, nor does the fact that the percentage of them on the site is high. Lifestyle-only Domme are the minority everywhere. Why shouldn't the profiles on here reflect that. Now.. unbunch your knickers and go look at the main collar me page. Notice in the group of buttons that has "add to favorites" and "block user", there is one called hide user. You click that little button and the person goes away. You don't see them in searches again. You can remove them from the hidden list by clicking on the "hidden users" link on the left (right above Admirers) and then clicking the X next to the name you wish to be in your searches again. Isn't that easier than raising your blood pressure?

Now that's the ticket-- don't gripe about the world, change what you can when you don't like it!
Regards, ATP

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