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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 4:09:31 AM   
AquaticSub


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I really don't know. It feels like the power dynamic touches everything we do in some way so it's hard for me to pick something. Maybe when he takes me to PetSmart so I can pick out a new mousie or a tag for a collar or something.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 7:43:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

It feels like the power dynamic touches everything we do in some way so it's hard for me to pick something.


Aqua, this is how I feel. I can't actually pick out a single thing we do that isn't in any way affected by the power dynamic. Even when I do something that looks completely vanilla, like go to the store to buy groceries, I will say to him, "I'm going to go get groceries," and even though I've said it as a declarative sentence, we both know that if he says, "No, I need you to do XYZ instead," I will instantly change my plans without any questions.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 7:57:32 AM   
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Gunfights. Nothing like a good gunfight to settle once and for all who's boss.


Nonsense.

Britt's knife duel in "The Magnificent Seven" rocks.

OK. Back to my nap.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 8:03:08 AM   
sexyred1


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posting on Collarme?

sometimes I laugh so hard here it almost feels orgasmic; does that count?

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 8:05:24 AM   
Musicmystery


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Or "Sir, may I have permission to snort fluid out my nostrils all over the keyboard?"




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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 8:36:08 AM   
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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 8:52:07 AM   
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Life.



Awesome answer and I agree!!

If the OP is looking for specifics, well pretty much anything I can do for him.  Our dynamic is part of all of what we do, so there isn't anything to separate out.  But some things I particularly enjoy doing would be cooking for him and snuggling up to him in just the way he wants me to.


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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 9:50:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		After reading everybody else's answer... I'm sticking with what I said.  All of those other tasks I do for the person I'm with, power-exchange or no, so I can't really classify them as non-sexual power exchange activities, because I can't come up with anything I do for someone that I'm in a relationship with that is a non-sexual, non-power exchange activity.  So now I'm pondering on my marriage and the effects of the one-way power exchange that took place.  Jeez, it's too early on a Monday for this. LOL.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 9:52:13 AM   
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Waiting on him, getting his drinks, making his dinner, doing his laundry cleaning his house, giving him a massage.....and then fucking


OK, I stand corrected.

All of the above and then fucking, sounds the best of all.  Thank You!!! 

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 10:09:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		my favorite nonsexual activity it vanilla sex

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 10:32:43 AM   
lapgirl


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Status: offline 		everything i think... would amount to what someone else said ealier... life. And now that i think about it a bit more, it seems there is some sexual response to doing what i am told to do. He doesn't even have to be present, its just doing what i am told... no wonder i drink so much water and diet coke... i get so dehydrated!!!!!

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 11:11:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		Either being manhandled into the cuddle position he wants me in (I'm not much of a cuddler, but he is, so...); being his body servant when he's getting ready (washing him in the shower, trimming his hair/nails, etc); bringing him things when he wants them...
For me, it's mostly about what he wishes, since I am most happy when he is pleased.  I love trying to anticipate what he wants, and he never fails to be happy when I take the time to do so

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 11:52:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mine is fixing things. But women don't want sub men to fix things they just want you to listen while they complain about it being broke.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 12:01:17 PM   
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Mine is fixing things. But women don't want sub men to fix things they just want you to listen while they complain about it being broke.


How 'bout I turn Domme for about a week and you can come to my house??? I would be most appreciative.

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 12:08:21 PM   
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Either being manhandled into the cuddle position he wants me in...


Heh, I love the way you put this.  I had forgotten how much I loved touchy-feely'ness until he came along and wanted it.  And yep, I'm actually put into cuddle positions, lol.  Well, at first I was.  Now it's more like "assume the (snuggle) position."


Well okay, if he insists....


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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 11:03:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'll sit by Daddy's feet if he's in his chair or if we're out somewhere I make sure I get his drinks or if he needs something. One night at a vanilla party he was feeling ill so I made sure there was always a seat for him to sit in (it was packed with people) and I make sure he takes his vitamins every day and generally just take care of him. 

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/18/2010 11:15:34 PM   
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I'll sit by Daddy's feet if he's in his chair

That's a good one! Even better if I'm allowed to put my head on his knee for petting and playing with my hair
I also love massage, and am pretty good at it (or so I've been told). I lubs getting  my hands all warm & oily and working the stress and tension out of my partner when he's had a bad day. 


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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/19/2010 6:30:09 AM   
petmonkey


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Dressing Him, reading to Him
Emailing him porn--o wait that's sorta' sexual.


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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/21/2010 10:10:07 AM   
pixidustpet


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Status: offline 		TheEngineer knows i'm a bit wobbly most days and that i dont like to use a cane/really need a different one.

so he puts his arm out for me to balance against going down curbs, and holds hands with me so i dont wobble too much when we're walking in public.  oh and he takes me to bed when i'm tired, undresses me and tucks me in.

wonderful everyday stuffs. 

kitten

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RE: Favorite Non-Sexual Activities - 1/21/2010 10:34:51 AM   
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Can't come up with a thing...everything tends to end with us fucking.


In the interest of keeping my Virginity...uh intact....I agree w/Ailee but must insist on changing f**king to "chatting".


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