WardenStricter -> RE: fishhooking mouth (6/29/2010 11:03:22 PM)
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Again someone is jumping to be negative and judgmental. After all that marvelous discussion about acceptance and that beautiful apology from sexyred1. I feel angry and sad. I would really rather be part of a supportive culture of BDSMers. So let me make a pitch for withholding judgment of others. From personal experience, after I get into putting others down so I can feel better, lots of times I find out I was were all wrong about the person I was judging. Then I feel like an idiot. Know what made me feel bad in the short run, alot better in the long run? Apologizing. FYI: "I am an alcoholic" is something alcoholics learn to say in AA meetings. It means they are in recovery. Likely he's been sober since he learned to say that phrase. Once a person acknowledges they are an alcoholic, they say that about themselves for the rest of their lives, even if they haven't touched a drink in decades. How could you possibly know that? You couldn't, unless you know alcoholics in recovery or you're one yourself. So here's my request, not just to the lovely legged LadyAngelika, but to all of us in this diverse community. That includes myself. Please remember that there's always going to be something you don't know -- something that might make you feel bad for passing judgment in the first place. Keep up the good work alcoholic24.
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