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Preference - 1/18/2010 5:48:28 AM   
fungirl24


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To Your minds, what is better? A young slave that is untouched, or a mature slave that is more able to open up to this world?

Thanks!
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RE: Preference - 1/18/2010 7:42:21 AM   
MissDita


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Status: offline 		I prefer an inexperienced slave, if he's genuine and knows what kind of relationship he wants. (but I love them a bit older, they have to be mature enough)


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RE: Preference - 1/18/2010 8:43:10 AM   
onlyme32111


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Status: offline 		Experienced.

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RE: Preference - 1/18/2010 8:43:47 AM   
Jeffff


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RE: Preference - 1/18/2010 8:57:05 AM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fungirl24

hello all!

To Your minds, what is better? A young slave that is untouched, or a mature slave that is more able to open up to this world?

Thanks!


There are pros and cons to both. Which I prefer is going to depend entirely upon the individual.


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RE: Preference - 1/18/2010 9:30:32 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I prefer the more experienced, because *I* am more experienced. There is a whole world out there that I have not done yet, but there is also a great deal that I HAVE done, and know that I don't want to experience again. I think it would be unfair to hold a new person back from all of that, and say, Well, I hate X, so you are not getting it from Me, if it's a sincere interest.

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RE: Preference - 1/18/2010 9:30:42 AM   
AAkasha


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ORIGINAL: fungirl24

hello all!

To Your minds, what is better? A young slave that is untouched, or a mature slave that is more able to open up to this world?

Thanks!


The generic answer is "it varies and depends on the man overall" but I do have an observation beyond that. I tend to like either the totally inexperienced, or the totally savvy -- it's the mish-mash of experience in the middle that I have found trouble with. 

I like a totally clean slate to work with - as virginal as possible - so I can totally mold him into what I desire. THIS is hot.  Unfortunately, that package often comes with some drawbacks related to expectations and maturity.

On the other end of the spectrum is a man who combined maturity with very reasonable expectations and refined classiness -- he's been in a few relationships, he's got a great balance between his vanilla world and his kinky world, and he has very realistic about what femdoms want/need yet can appreciate the differences.

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RE: Preference - 1/18/2010 9:31:23 AM   
DesFIP


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RE: Preference - 1/18/2010 11:12:09 AM   
LadyPact


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RE: Preference - 1/18/2010 11:14:57 AM   
RumpusParable


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: fungirl24

hello all!

To Your minds, what is better? A young slave that is untouched, or a mature slave that is more able to open up to this world?

Thanks!


There are pros and cons to both. Which I prefer is going to depend entirely upon the individual.



Ditto.  Depends.

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RE: Preference - 1/18/2010 1:21:44 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		I'm indifferent to his/her level of experience.  I'm far more interested in compatible personality, values, goals, etc.

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RE: Preference - 1/18/2010 3:47:02 PM   
LadyAngelika


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Status: offline 		One that is compatible with me.

And for the record, I prefer sub mentality over slave.

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RE: Preference - 1/18/2010 5:04:11 PM   
SweetDommes


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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

I'm indifferent to his/her level of experience.  I'm far more interested in compatible personality, values, goals, etc.




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RE: Preference - 1/20/2010 11:35:44 AM   
MsDDom


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ORIGINAL: fungirl24

hello all!

To Your minds, what is better? A young slave that is untouched, or a mature slave that is more able to open up to this world?

Thanks!


...both! A fresh and "pure" slave is always appealing to me. And having he and a mature slave serving together is "mm-mm good".



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RE: Preference - 1/20/2010 11:48:33 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		I prefer younger men so they may have much less experience than I.

But that is certainly not the same thing has having no experience or some experience.

I prefer someone who is younger and who had taken the time to start and learn everything he/she can from non-porn sources.

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