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WantingToServe11 -> Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 6:53:15 PM)

I recently sent an email to a female dominant, it was a basic introductory email, and she sent an email back to me asking if I would be willing to do tasks to prove that I am really "interested." I agreed; she then sent an email back to me asking if I " know tribute." I replied by saying " I would have to get to know you first." She read the email and never responded.

Was is it wrong of me to say " I have to get to know you first?" Should I have responed to her in another fashion? Was I rude? I don't know if I did anything wrong. Of course, there is that possibility that she was fake. And, it isn't an option for me to send my wallet to anyone I don't know.




LadyEllen -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 6:55:45 PM)

no

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mc1234 -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 6:57:57 PM)

nope - perfectly right response in my opinion.




BKSir -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 6:58:55 PM)

I should think I'd be disappointed in ones lack of common sense if one did otherwise.

Also, welcome to the forums :)




WantingToServe11 -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 6:59:24 PM)

Thank you much for your replies.




rockspider -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 7:02:59 PM)

LOL. Rule no 1 on CM. If anybody ask for money, hit delete and block [sm=wtf.gif]




xxblushesxx -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 7:14:18 PM)

Send me $50. and I'll tell you all about it...




WantingToServe11 -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 7:14:23 PM)

I was just making sure I wasn't breaking some kind of etiquette. I was already speculative of her profile before sending her an email but there are so few real profiles that I was willing to give it a shot. And of course, it's fake. Sigh....




WantingToServe11 -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 7:15:24 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Send me $50. and I'll tell you all about it...


Ok! Give me your account information including your pin.




masterlink65 -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 7:16:27 PM)

it means she wants money




xxblushesxx -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 7:18:11 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: WantingToServe11

quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Send me $50. and I'll tell you all about it...


Ok! Give me your account information including your pin.


Sure sweetie...call me at my 888 number and I'll tell ya all about it....




littlewonder -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 9:10:07 PM)

There is no etiquette.

It's whatever you feel comfortable and wanting to do. If you like and want to send money then send it. If you are suspicious and not something you like to do then don't do it.




ResidentSadist -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 9:26:30 PM)

OP not sending money to strangers - 2 points
blushes for offering to answer OP for pay - 5 points
OP for asking bank info to pay - 11 points
blushes giving pay per minute number to call for bank info - priceless





xxblushesxx -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/18/2010 9:30:29 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

OP not sending money to strangers - 2 points
blushes for offering to answer OP for pay - 5 points
OP for asking bank info to pay - 11 points
blushes giving pay per minute number to call for bank info - priceless




I actually *do* have numbers I do this on...in fact, just got off a $50. call. But I don't think I'm allowed (nor would I want to) give out this info here...




AquaticSub -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/19/2010 4:29:01 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WantingToServe11

Was is it wrong of me to say " I have to get to know you first?" Should I have responed to her in another fashion? Was I rude? I don't know if I did anything wrong. Of course, there is that possibility that she was fake. And, it isn't an option for me to send my wallet to anyone I don't know.


It's not wrong at all, assuming you were polite about it and didn't start calling her names.

She might have been a scammer or she might be a real mistress who insists on a tribute very early on. Either way, it doesn't really matter because she wants something too quickly for you. Just move on and better luck next time. [:)]




AquaticSub -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/19/2010 4:30:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I actually *do* have numbers I do this on...in fact, just got off a $50. call. But I don't think I'm allowed (nor would I want to) give out this info here...


*chuckles* That would probably be a bad idea. Glad to know I'm not the only one though I've had to give it up for a bit.




afkarr -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/19/2010 5:16:26 AM)

I believe exchanging money for sex is known as prostitution, kinky or not.




AquaticSub -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/19/2010 5:33:24 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: afkarr

I believe exchanging money for sex is known as prostitution, kinky or not.


Tribute isn't exchanging money for sex.




CarrieO -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/19/2010 5:44:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WantingToServe11
I recently sent an email to a female dominant, it was a basic introductory email, and she sent an email back to me asking if I would be willing to do tasks to prove that I am really "interested." I agreed; she then sent an email back to me asking if I " know tribute." I replied by saying " I would have to get to know you first." She read the email and never responded.

Was is it wrong of me to say " I have to get to know you first?"

Not at all. 

Should I have responed to her in another fashion?

Nope

Was I rude?

In saying you wanted more?  Again, no.

I don't know if I did anything wrong. Of course, there is that possibility that she was fake. And, it isn't an option for me to send my wallet to anyone I don't know.



quote:

ORIGINAL: WantingToServe11

I was just making sure I wasn't breaking some kind of etiquette. I was already speculative of her profile before sending her an email but there are so few real profiles that I was willing to give it a shot. And of course, it's fake. Sigh....


The way I see it, the only etiquette online is "netiquette"... http://www.albion.com/netiquette/corerules.html
Not everyone follows these guidelines, but it doesn't hurt to have a look.
 
Also...please try to not use the word "fake".  One person's fake is another's perfect mate.
 
Good luck and don't send money to strangers![;)]
 
edited because it posted before I finished what I wanted to say...ugh!





DarkSteven -> RE: Question about so called "tribute" (1/19/2010 6:50:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: afkarr

I believe exchanging money for sex is known as prostitution, kinky or not.


Absolutely correct.  However, if you read OP's post, you will realize that sex was never in the equation.




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