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stap ons - 3/23/2006 7:10:48 PM

fastlane

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How do you control the depth? Too much could injure a prostrate, so how do you know how far and how hard to push?
........................hurts me just thinking about it........Kevin

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RE: stap ons - 3/23/2006 8:13:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: fastlane

How do you control the depth? Too much could injure a prostrate, so how do you know how far and how hard to push?
........................hurts me just thinking about it........Kevin

ok hon, its a s-t-r-a-p-o-n not a stap on, Staps is a family tree with its geneology on the internet

so, using a strap on is no differet than gay sex or hetero anal sex---which can hit the uterus, so don't whine because your prostate is "in there" if it is that squeemish, think about what your sub feels, it ain't much different, in fact she has more "stuff" to mess with...

next, we don't load those holsters with 2x4's for goddess sakes---we control the depth just like you do---one inch at a time--

oh but Mine is 9 inches and your is?

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I'm being a frisky brat tonite---hugs

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RE: stap ons - 3/24/2006 3:42:55 AM

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You take it slow and easy then build momenteum once you feel everything is safe to proceed with. You can tell by the subs reaction how things are going if he's bleeding from the anus and screaming his safeword then its a definite * no go*.

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RE: stap ons - 3/24/2006 3:51:37 AM

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Have you seen the size of some of those "things" in gay leather shops? I one saw a guy put his foot into another guys ass. I'm sure they worked up to it. You'd be suprised what you can take when you're in the mood. The whole trick is to relax. The more relaxed the easier and less sore later.

Use a good lube. The only lube I ever use is Astroglide and now it also comes in a gel & even has anal shooters to get it in there good. Use silacone or plastic dildos & be sure to wash with soap and water then rub a light cloth with rubbing alcohol. You can also use condoms to help keep them clean but do make sure they stay clean. Some people prefer cyberskin but I would definately use a condom with these and whatever you do don't put alcohol.

If I'm training someone for anal play I might start using butt plugs... inserting them and leaving them for short periods so that they get use to the intrusion.

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RE: stap ons - 3/24/2006 3:52:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

You take it slow and easy then build momenteum once you feel everything is safe to proceed with. You can tell by the subs reaction how things are going if he's bleeding from the anus and screaming his safeword then its a definite * no go*.

~Lashra

That would seem like a good time to stop. OMG so funny how you put that.

If a sub is bleeding profusely from the anus you may want to consider medical care as:

In boaters educ. class.
We were told a horror story about a woman on a jet ski who was jumping waves on a jet ski and came down so hard that he anus ripped open and she bled to death on the water. I dont think they were just trying to scare us either. ;-)

I hope I am not hijacking your post with that story and belittling your question. Ask a few gay men there easy to find here and in public these days.

~Hope I entertained and helped~

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RE: stap ons - 3/24/2006 4:06:18 AM

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http://tperkins.com/anal/index.html

Here is some good info on anal sex btw

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RE: stap ons - 3/24/2006 4:36:04 AM

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If you're getting your prostate beat up, try changing the angle of entry. Aim straight for the belly button to hit the prostate, or aim parallel to the spine for more depth.

If you really wanna know about anal play, get yourself a copy of 'Anal Pleasure and Health' by Jack Morin PHD. It's published by Down There Press, and the ISBN is 0-940208-20-2

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RE: stap ons - 3/24/2006 11:49:48 AM

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Well you certainly dont start anal penetration with a strapon. I started training my sub with my fingers...you know, cuz their little. Then I had him work with butt plugs and graduate sizes and eventually we moved to dildos which I controlled with my hands...then we moved on to a two way dildo that I inserted into him and then into myself (reason being that it didnt move around too much in him) THEN we bought the feeldoe which is small enough that it doesnt require a deep breath of courage just to look at, but big enough that it massages the prostate. And thats where we are at now. I may move up sizes eventually again.

Basically you start small with something you can control really well and move up in size and skill as you both become comfortable with it.

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RE: stap ons - 3/24/2006 6:46:00 PM

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I hate anal play. Did I make it a hard limit? No, but I asked if she could take it slow with that. First time we had a major scene she's going there. Sadistic Bitch. She's beem training me, having me train myself (no fun that speaking which I guess I have something to do after this post). But I just can't relax no matter what, I try not to but fight it all the way and get no pleasure from it. What's a sub to do but grin and bear it.

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RE: stap ons - 3/25/2006 3:17:09 PM

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How do I find a Domme who will train me with a strap-on. I need to know how it feels to be on the receiving end of cock.

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RE: stap ons - 3/25/2006 3:35:05 PM

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