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DanSbabygirl -> how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/19/2010 1:25:07 AM)

Greetings Aall
This  girl has been asked to Mentor a sub/switch friend.
This girl has come up against a question that she has trouble grasping, Tis simple question really, but seen as this girl has only ever been sub, any Switching questions are a lil bit difficult for her to answer.
Please could she draw from The experience of Aall that care to help.
Thanks in advance



DanSbabygirl -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/19/2010 1:30:18 AM)

Oops,, the question was    * how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner.*



AquaticSub -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/19/2010 4:44:02 AM)

Just some free advice... all but one of the threads will be pulled.



HarleyKitty69 -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/28/2010 9:11:01 AM)

Why will they be pulled ??

to the OP

As with any other person in the lifestyle you approch them with respect... A little manners gets you a quiet a way.
As a switch and a slave, I adress everyone as Ma'am or Sir, until unwise instructed; no one up to this date has gotten upset with me when I called them Ma'am or Sir.
I use the same common curtesy and manners as I would in every day but that is because that is what my Master is expecting of me.
and when in doubt, look it up in the Emily Post Book of Etiquitte ......



lusciouslips19 -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/28/2010 9:17:20 AM)

You cant cross post the same thread in more than one place.



HarleyKitty69 -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/28/2010 11:58:43 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

You cant cross post the same thread in more than one place.



And I take it this has happen with this one ??



SassySarijane -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/28/2010 7:08:43 PM)

Yup Kitty it did.



flogger -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/28/2010 11:10:48 PM)

She was told I was hard of hearing and her Master had her write a note to me "Do you want to fuck me? true story.



NormalOutside -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/28/2010 11:14:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DanSbabygirl

Oops,, the question was    * how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner.*

That would depend on the person you're approaching, wouldn't it?
There could be a billion answers to this question. Almost 7 billion, in fact.



HarleyKitty69 -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/29/2010 2:40:32 PM)

I still say with the upmost respect and manners
will never hurt to approach anyone with respect, honor, integrity and foremost MANNERS !!



SassySarijane -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/29/2010 5:44:57 PM)

I don't have a special way of approaching doms and subs. I approach them as I do any other person I meet. With courtesy. How I approach them after I know them depends on what, if any, kind of relationship we develop. They get at least basic courtesy from me.



HarleyKitty69 -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/30/2010 10:55:13 AM)

yes you do, you approach them with the same respect you want to be approach..... ok ok you called it courtesy... I called it resepct [8D]

you say potato
I say potatoe
~rolls eyes~



Aylee -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/30/2010 11:49:22 AM)

Whatever happened to walking up to the person, extending your hand and saying, "Hi, I'm (insert name here).  Pleased to meet you"  ?



Jeffff -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/30/2010 11:50:01 AM)

And THEN you do them?


Jeff



Aylee -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (1/30/2010 11:51:49 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

And THEN you do them?


Jeff


You just never know. 



HarleyKitty69 -> RE: how to approach Doms and subs without causing offence and in a respectful manner. (2/13/2010 10:34:23 AM)

if thats what you want to do with them ... sure why not ??

but be safe .. bring your raincoat [;)]



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