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ORIGINAL: QueenRah

Where do you get that this young lady thinks it's all about her, RCdc? She's asking to be able to do useful things for a Domina and be treated relatively gently, in return. The "do mes," many of them twice her age, could learn a lot from her!

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ORIGINAL: subinchico

Can I just say the OP is fucking adorable.. You got the lip thing goin on!  Can I mention the competition without it being censored? Try FetLife.

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ORIGINAL: Rhodes85

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If i can work while someone relaxes and snaps their fingers then ill be in heaven (throw in the foot stuff as a reward and its perfect)
In return i want to be respected and looked after, i dont want to be whipped i'd rather be cuddled!

Then don't settle for anyone who doesn't respect and isn't willing to look after you.
EXACTLY!

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I never thought of trying dating sites, i didnt know there was anything like this on there could be worth a look though. To be honest i have only looked here and no where else.

My profile is all about me simply because i wanted my profile to show me, i wanted to try to get my personality accross aswell as the things im interested in. I really didnt want people to think im one of those "im a worthless slut abuse me" kind of people. I would definitely class myself as submissive though, it may not show on here but i guess its kind of hard to show.

I think you did a good job of your profile. I think you may want to take a look at some other websites as well. Though the average dating site has its fair share of people that are everything you aren't looking for. Just like here you have to put up with alot of waiting and bs to find the right person. I would suggest if you have Facebook to try that Social Me application. I met more people through that then any dating site ironically.

I AGREE!  It shouldn't be finding someone who wants to change you into something you aren't interested in being, but more about finding someone who loves you and accepts you as you are.  But do remember, change can bring good things and some change is for the better.

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LilFoot, keep on, girl. Not all Dominants are sadists. You do not have to compromise yourself to find someone, anyone, to play with you and be your Lady. You may have your work cut out for you finding her and it may take quite a while, though!

I agree. 
So do I.

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No sorry i didnt mean it like that, I want a private life aswell as my life as a sub.. being 20 im at college and have a job so i really couldnt do 24/7.

Well, being in college have you considered putting off your search until you are finished? It might make it easier after you graduate, as you would have more time both for your search and for the person when you find her.
A good idea, and definitely worth considering. 

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As for going to a munch i have looked into it and they do happen here, the thing is apart from this site no one knows about this side of me and i really dont have confidence to go along on my own to that sort of thing.

And depending on the career you have chosen perhaps that is wisdom before it's time.   Being open or out in this lifestyle can affect and effect how you are perceived.  Believe me:  MANY people will imagine you to be things you are not if they discover you have a kinky side.  Don't imagine that they will be up front and ask you.  I probably wouldn't throw myself out there on Facebook or Myspace due to the long term ramifications that could result.  Remember:  Not all people are open minded or understanding.....even those on this venue.

In the end you just have to give it time. Be yourself; don't let anyone talk you into doing anything you are not comfortable with and get to know a few people. You will eventually find the right person for you.

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Can I just say the OP is fucking adorable.. You got the lip thing goin on! 

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

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ORIGINAL: LilFootGirl

It's very remiss of me not to have remarked recently that you are a thoroughly good guy, Otters.

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ORIGINAL: AlexandraLynch

Personally I wouldn't have a problem with a sub like that but I am poly, and so can get my sadism out by beating another sub at other times. In fact right now what I have is a sex and light pain boy and a couple guys I meet up with at local parties who like being played with hard. So that works out for me. Whether or not a poly situation would work for you is only something you could know. 

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ORIGINAL: MargueriteV

You seem so awesome, makes me wanna rethink my choice in colleges.

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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

Poly is short for polyamorous, Poly = multiple, Amorous = love. Which basically means having more than one intimate relationship at a time - with all parties aware of each other.